{"id":5884264,"date":"2012-01-23T00:00:36","date_gmt":"2012-01-23T08:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5884264"},"modified":"2012-01-12T16:06:26","modified_gmt":"2012-01-13T00:06:26","slug":"be-strong-when-your-heart-is-broken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/be-strong-when-your-heart-is-broken.html","title":{"rendered":"Be Strong When Your Heart Is Broken"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s Not the End, But a Beginning<\/h4>\n

You\u2019re in shock. You can\u2019t believe that your relationship is over. You\u2019re crying. You\u2019re angry. You\u2019re hurt. It\u2019s impossible to focus on anything other than your loss. Your heart is shattered<\/a><\/strong>, and somehow you have to figure out how to pick up all those pieces and go on with your life.<\/p>\n

Finding Meaning<\/strong><\/p>\n

One word that will repeatedly go through your mind and flow from your lips as you talk to your friends about what happened is \u201cWhy?\u201d At first, there will be no satisfactory answers to that question. When you\u2019re hurting, it seems like no reason could ever justify the pain.<\/p>\n

The key to finding meaning in the situation that broke your heart<\/a><\/strong> is to believe that there is a good reason, but that reason probably won\u2019t be clear to you until some time has passed. After you can get some emotional distance, you will be able to see the purpose for what happened.<\/p>\n

In her book, Everything Happens for a Reason<\/em>, author Mira Kirshenbaum explains that \u201cthe reason something happened to you was to make something better in your future.\u201d Keeping this point in mind when your heart is broken will give you strength.
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Psychic Kim ext. 5512<\/a><\/strong> explains that after two months of being an emotional wreck, she experienced a spiritual shift from pain to elation. The next day, she met her husband. \u201cSo when my pain healed, love immediately followed<\/a><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

Embracing the Gift<\/strong><\/p>\n

In time, you will discover that what you thought was the worst thing to happen to you might actually have been the best thing to happen. As you reassemble the pieces of your broken heart, you will find the gift awaiting you. Says Kirshenbaum, \u201cThe cosmos worked hard to give you this gift, so you damned well better use it.\u201d<\/p>\n

If you need help finding the gift in your heartache, call one of our compassionate psychics for guidance.<\/p>\n

“The universe isn’t running out of men!” \u2013 Psychic Francesca ext. 5500<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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What’s next in your love life? Talk to a psychic and find out.<\/span>\u00a0Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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