
{"id":5882732,"date":"2011-12-07T00:00:41","date_gmt":"2011-12-07T08:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5882732"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:52:56","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:52:56","slug":"male-sex-secrets","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/male-sex-secrets.html","title":{"rendered":"4 Male Sex Secrets He Wishes You Knew"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>A New Twist to the Ageless Game<\/h4>\n<p>Our men and their needs and desires will always hold a bit of mystery, no matter how clever a game we women think we play. Read on to bone up on a few bedroom secrets he secretly wishes you knew.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Oral is King<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/sex-qa-he-wants-oral.html\">Most men will take oral sex any day<\/a><\/strong> over intercourse. While a man might agree that both are great, and that one does not replace the other, he often does prefer one over the other, if given the option. Descriptively speaking, oral sex falls under the headings of &#8220;just wanting to get off&#8221; and &#8220;it&#8217;s kinkier&#8221; than regular sex. Men realize that for women it usually takes <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/01\/7-tips-to-awakening-your-kundalini-sexual-energy.html\/\">more work for her to orgasm<\/a><\/strong>, so if it&#8217;s just about him, he knows that sexual gratification is merely moments away.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Acupressure Arousal<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You might want to expand your foreplay repertoire: According to the Chinese therapy of acupressure, there is a series of communication channels running throughout the human body. In accordance with this therapy mode, pressure on his spleen increases energy flow to his reproductive organs. His most carnal channel is from his big toe, to the top of his foot and along the inside of his leg, so applying pressure with your palm along these areas will stimulate him more than other areas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Honesty Over Manipulation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some women have a hard time expressing clearly what they want in the bedroom, and resort to dropping hints or manipulating their partner into doing what they want rather than just speaking their minds. Men aren&#8217;t very skilled at deciphering these hints, ladies, so just be clear and upfront about what you need. He&#8217;ll respect you more for it, and the sex will be more satisfying for both of you!<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. It Doesn&#8217;t Pay to Be Passive<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are women who still feel that the man should take charge, or are too shy to speak up during sex. Instead of waiting for the man to bring you to orgasm, take control. It&#8217;s your body, and you know it better than anyone else, so enjoy it. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/02\/sex-qa-bedroom-secrets.html\/\">You&#8217;ll have more pleasure in the bedroom<\/a><\/strong>, and there&#8217;s nothing sexier to a man than a woman who knows how to pleasure herself during intimate moments with her man.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=112937&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY $1 per minute. Select your psychic advisor here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>What&#8217;s ahead for\u00a0<em>your <\/em>love life?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"font-size: 16px;color: #d33d26\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v4\/pickyourpsychic-step1?lid=112769&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=test1\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our men and their needs and desires will always hold a bit of mystery, no matter how clever a game we women think we play. 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