We all know them. The kind of people who suck you dry. Whether it\u2019s by making conversations all about them, issuing passive aggressive backhanded compliments or simply wreaking havoc everywhere they go, toxic friends are emotional vampires<\/a><\/strong>, preying on our energy, time and in some cases, money! If you\u2019re dealing with an amigo who\u2019s not really so amicable, consider this your chance to get some help from the cosmos.<\/p>\n Here’s your guide to bouncing back by Sun Sign:<\/p>\n Scorpio<\/strong><\/p>\n Few people are as dangerous as an ill-tempered Scorpio<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 they\u2019re not known as the stinger for no reason. If you\u2019re contending with a broody, moody being who knows how to push your buttons and does it in a way that cuts to the bone, try being upfront about your feelings. There\u2019s a chance that even an unbalanced Scorp will respect your directness. Whatever you do, however, don\u2019t lie to a Scorpio. They\u2019ll know instinctively and become even worse!<\/p>\n Sagittarius<\/strong><\/p>\n Not exactly known for toxic behavior, an out-of-whack Sag is likely to do more indirect damage with self-destructive behavior than they are to actively hurt anyone. Sadly, the best thing you can do is limit your exposure, which should be fine for a sign who prizes independence above all. Do your best not to become embroiled in the Archer\u2019s dramas and you\u2019ll find it easier to contend with their poor judgment.<\/p>\n Capricorn<\/strong><\/p>\n The worst thing about a toxic Capricorn is that they\u2019ll never see your point of view. In the goat\u2019s mind everything they\u2019re doing is totally justified and correct\u2014which can make them really difficult to deal with. For your best shot at minimizing your own frustrations, try not to argue and change the subject. You\u2019re not going to win this battle\u2014and even if you do, you\u2019ll never change them.<\/p>\n “You always have the choice to react to a situation or to consciously respond to it. When you automatically react it’s often in a state of fear or upset. When you consciously respond you come from a more solid understanding.” –\u00a0Rivers ext. 5273<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Aquarius<\/strong><\/p>\n Oh, eccentric Aquarius\u2026 The Water Bearer is not above bending the truth to suit their version of reality\u2026 However, this is one sign you can cut the chord with and not expect a fight. If you\u2019re dealing with an Aquarian\u2019s bad behavior don\u2019t be afraid to take a stance\u2014they probably won\u2019t change, but they\u2019ll see your approach as an attack and be more than happy to run the other way.<\/p>\n Pisces<\/strong><\/p>\n You may be surprised to know that a Pisces wronged can be extremely vengeful. While popular wisdom says Pisces will go into a hole and hurt themselves, they\u2019re also known to be passive aggressive and potentially, sneaky. The catch is this is only when they\u2019re hurt. SO, if a Pisces is becoming increasingly difficult to deal with, ask them if you\u2019ve done something to hurt them. It might be the end of the poison.<\/p>\n Aries<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, one thing\u2019s for sure. When Aries is acting out, everyone around them will know it. A particularly unbalanced Ram will repel people for miles around. Trouble is, they\u2019re so magnetic, some will be simultaneously drawn to them. Don\u2019t let yourself fall into this trap. You\u2019ll only get snapped at. Steer clear when the crazy kicks in\u2014and if it\u2019s always there, find a way to bow out before it\u2019s too late!<\/p>\n Taurus<\/strong><\/p>\n The master of judgment, a Bull who\u2019s in a bad way will be assessing you every second. You can try telling them how it makes you feel, but odds are, they won\u2019t budge. Find a practical way for them to experience how you feel however, and things may change. Try giving this sensitive sign a dose of their own medicine. After all, what do you have to lose? It\u2019s not like they could get any worse!<\/p>\n Gemini<\/strong><\/p>\n The difficulty in dealing with most Geminis\u2014never mind toxic ones\u2014is that they\u2019re duplicitous. You never know exactly who you\u2019re going to get. Just as you think you can\u2019t take any more of their harsh critiques and high expectations (standards that don\u2019t apply to them or their behavior, of course!), a chatty charmer shows up in their place. Don\u2019t be tempted by the Twins to indulge in the Twins\u2019 good day gossip. It\u2019ll only come back to bite you on the next bad one!<\/p>\n Cancer<\/strong><\/p>\n Neediness is the toxic quality most associated with the Crab \u2013 and no one (except maybe Pisces) can display this level of desperation. Of course Cancer responds well to being babied and indulged, the trick is, they have a tendency to simply drop deeper as a result. So what\u2019s the balance? Let Cancer know you\u2019re there for them, but encourage them to take some personal responsibility. There\u2019s a difference between being a friend and being a crutch.<\/p>\n Leo<\/strong><\/p>\n Ego, ego, ego\u2026 Male Leos in particular have ego to spare. Given someone who isn\u2019t emotionally mature or self-aware, this results in a sense of self-entitlement not to be rivaled by any sign\u2014even Aries. When dealing with Leo\u2019s demands, take a soft approach. Compliments and coddling can sometimes soothe the savage beast. Save any real critique for a stabler time\u2026 or hold back altogether. Some things just aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n Virgo<\/strong><\/p>\n A toxic Virgo knows everything. Really. And they\u2019ll insist upon expounding on your faults ad nauseum until you feel like you\u2019re about to explode. It\u2019s their way or the highway. And you\u2019d be better off hitting the road than trying to overcome this sizable speed bump. If you simply must stick around, you\u2019ll need to develop a thick skin and ability to shift subjects with ease and regularity.<\/p>\n Libra<\/strong><\/p>\n As the sign of balance<\/a><\/strong>, one can imagine a Libra who is out of alignment is trouble. Bottled up emotions that come spewing out as venom. Silent treatments that end in outbursts. Expectations that can\u2019t be met. Indeed, Libra is one of the most difficult toxic people to figure out. But you can use their extreme fickleness to your advantage and steer clear while things are ugly. Odds are they\u2019ll change their mind when they\u2019re feeling better\u2026 and be a lot easier to deal with.<\/p>\n Remember: “We teach people how to treat us.” \u2013\u00a0Shyla ext. 5431<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n