{"id":5876294,"date":"2011-08-15T05:00:55","date_gmt":"2011-08-15T12:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5876294"},"modified":"2016-05-18T12:41:38","modified_gmt":"2016-05-18T19:41:38","slug":"are-you-talking-yourself-out-of-wealth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/destiny-life-path\/are-you-talking-yourself-out-of-wealth.html","title":{"rendered":"Are You Talking Yourself Out of Wealth?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Watch Your Language!<\/h4>\n<p>Whenever you are not speaking out loud to another person or reading someone else\u2019s words, you are probably speaking silently to yourself. This type of \u201cself-talk\u201d goes on all day long, usually as unmonitored chatter. If you start paying attention to your inner commentary, you might find that it is talking you out of the things you want. The quality of your self-talk could even be affecting your bank balance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thoughts Are Connected to Behavior<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you discover an opportunity that aligns with your goals, but then your self-talk tells you, \u201cYou\u2019ll never be able to do that,\u201d it is unlikely that you will pursue that opportunity. That little voice in your head might not even be your own voice. It could be echoes of other people\u2019s voices over the years\u2014<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/tips-for-parents-your-teens-first-love.html\/\">such as your parents, siblings, teachers, or bosses<\/a><\/strong>\u2014that you\u2019ve internalized as part of your identity.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Familiar Words Work Best<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psychologists have found that people tend to cling to and expand on words and thoughts that are familiar. For example, in the 1970s, the research experiments of David McClelland, an expert in motivation, revealed that when his subjects were flashed two sets of words, one positive\u2014such as \u201csuccess\u201d and \u201cprofit\u201d\u2014and the other negative\u2014such as \u201cfailure\u201d and \u201closs\u201d\u2014the participants who ranked high in need for achievement recognized the positive words significantly faster than those with low need for achievement. And, as you might expect, those who ranked low in need for achievement recognized the negative words faster.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Improve Your Self-Talk<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Simply changing your self-talk from \u201cI can\u2019t\u201d to \u201cI can\u201d inspires hope. Changing \u201cThat\u2019s impossible\u201d to \u201cWell, that could happen\u201d instantly opens your mind to accepting new options. Changing self-criticism and blame to self-praise and acceptance breaks down barriers between you and your goals. Even changing the word \u201cbut\u201d to \u201cand\u201d will expand your perceptions.<\/p>\n<p>Emblazon your mind with words that are conducive to wealth\u2014such as \u201csuccess,\u201d \u201cconfidence,\u201d \u201cachievement,\u201d \u201cwinner,\u201d and \u201caction\u201d\u2014until they become familiar to you. If your self-talk tries to cancel your positive thoughts with negative ones, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/why-visualizing-works.html\/\">visualize pressing the \u201cDelete\u201d or \u201cSkip\u201d button<\/a><\/strong> on that counterproductive audio. In the same way that you create playlists for music, create playlists for your daily self-talk. You\u2019re in control of what gets stored in your memory for playback later.<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9; border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9; margin: 10px 0px; padding: 10px 4px; font-weight: bold;\"><strong>What&#8217;s ahead for <em>your <\/em>career path?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"font-size: 16px; color: #d33d26;\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=110524\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you constantly put yourself down and use &#8220;negative self-talk&#8221; to limit yourself and your own behavior? 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