{"id":5874700,"date":"2011-05-29T13:00:17","date_gmt":"2011-05-29T20:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5874700"},"modified":"2014-01-31T09:26:17","modified_gmt":"2014-01-31T17:26:17","slug":"build-a-foundation-of-trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/build-a-foundation-of-trust.html","title":{"rendered":"Build a Foundation of Trust"},"content":{"rendered":"

The great\u00a0guy you’ve been dating<\/a><\/strong> for a while now just asked for some time\u00a0to think about things. It’s only been a few months actually, but you feel like you’ve known him forever.\u00a0Why is he asking for some time\u00a0to think about things? You automatically think he has another woman he’s been seeing. After all, he didn’t call you back a few days ago and he said he was working through the weekend. Now, he needs time? All you did was ask where the relationship is going and if he’s finally going to announce to his friends and family that\u00a0he’s in love. Are we being a tad pushy here?<\/p>\n

You were in a serious love relationship once<\/a><\/strong>, and you waited seemingly forever for a man who asked\u00a0for\u00a0time out of the blue. He never called again, and the next thing you heard was the wedding announcement that your girlfriend read to you over the phone. Your worst fear is that it’s happening to you again and your heart is starting to break. That dream of marital bliss is going up in smoke as\u00a0surely as the last one. Hold it! You should be elated that the cheating, lying bum married someone else. The universe must love you because you missed the bullet.<\/p>\n

Your new guy\u00a0brought up marriage\u00a0a month after you met, but when he finally told you he was in love with you, you thought the next step was the engagement ring. The ring hasn’t happened, and you still haven’t met all of\u00a0his friends or family.\u00a0So what\u00a0if\u00a0he was in a relationship or marriage that ended horribly for him?\u00a0You’re\u00a0ready to call it quits just because he asked for more time. Never compare one man to the next, because it’s like comparing apples to oranges. Look hard enough and you’ll be certain\u00a0to find a flaw in anyone’s character, because no human is perfect. My question to you, though, is\u00a0why do you want to marry a man you obviously\u00a0aren’t ready to\u00a0trust explicitly?<\/p>\n

True, he’s never even\u00a0blinked at another woman when you’ve been\u00a0out on a date, and he did introduce you to his colleagues\u00a0as his girlfriend.\u00a0You\u00a0still have trust issues. Perhaps he does as well. It can be very hard to climb right back on that horse after you’ve been thrown to the ground and had your heart stomped on repeatedly. Is that what happened to your man? Yet you have your car keys in your hand, and you’re ready to dash over to his place to confront him. The\u00a0truth is, that’s a\u00a0really\u00a0bad idea.<\/p>\n

You would have a right to be upset if he didn’t call you three times a day just to hear your voice, but all he asked for was a little time to think about things. Of course, you’re feeling insecure and even hurt now, so\u00a0don’t you want a little more time to think and reflect on the commitment you’re asking him to make? No matter how true the love you feel for\u00a0one another is\u00a0there in your hearts, you\u00a0both still\u00a0need time to build a foundation of trust<\/a><\/strong>. Give\u00a0him time, give yourself time\u00a0and before you know it you’ll have the man and the ring. However, I won’t guarantee you’ll love your future in-laws. That’s another question.<\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your <\/em>love life?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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