{"id":5874237,"date":"2011-08-04T05:00:07","date_gmt":"2011-08-04T12:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5874237"},"modified":"2014-01-31T08:48:27","modified_gmt":"2014-01-31T16:48:27","slug":"should-you-tell-them-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/should-you-tell-them-everything.html","title":{"rendered":"Should You Tell Them Everything?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA statement endowed with five factors is well-spoken, not ill-spoken. It is blameless & unfaulted by knowledgeable people. Which five?<\/p>\n

It is spoken at the right time. It is spoken in truth. It is spoken affectionately. It is spoken beneficially. It is spoken with a mind of good-will.\u201d \u2013\u00a0Gautama Buddha<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Some things don\u2019t warrant words. If words are intended to hurt, it is probably time to hold back. However, if holding back is produced by fear of outcome, it is probably time to speak.\u00a0It\u2019s easy to justify \u201cwhite lies.\u201d But where do the lies slide into the grey area? And when do they become outright betrayal?<\/p>\n

Sometimes the prospect of coming clean is intimidating:\u00a0\u201cHey, I accidentally saw that you\u2019re getting e-mails from your ex, and I\u2019m feeling intimidated<\/a><\/strong>,\u201d may feel petty, or even paranoid, to mention.<\/p>\n

\u201cHey, I\u2019m getting e-mails from my ex, and even though I totally love you, I\u2019m feeling confused in my heart about loving you and still loving him,\u201d may feel scary to share.<\/p>\n

\u201cHey, I\u2019ve been talking with this guy I know, and I\u2019m finding myself really attracted to him,\u201d may feel like dynamite in your hand.<\/p>\n

But better a controlled detonation then an out-of-control time bomb.\u00a0In the words of the writer Robert Louis Stevenson, \u201cThe cruelest lies are often told in silence.\u201d\u00a0As a general rule of thumb; if you wonder if you should tell him what\u2019s weighing on your mind or heart, you probably should.<\/p>\n

Using the precepts offered by the Buddha \u2013 timing, truth, kindness, benefit, and goodwill \u2013 you will find the way to speak compassionately<\/a><\/strong>, and share the truth of your heart and soul with pure intention.<\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your<\/em> love life?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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