
{"id":5868365,"date":"2011-02-13T05:00:02","date_gmt":"2011-02-13T13:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5868365"},"modified":"2011-10-06T15:11:13","modified_gmt":"2011-10-06T22:11:13","slug":"valentines-day-dos-and-donts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/valentines-day-dos-and-donts.html","title":{"rendered":"Valentine\u2019s Day Do\u2019s and Don\u2019t\u2019s"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Making Your Lover Happy<\/h4>\n<p>For some, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/02\/back-together-on-valentines-day.html\/\">Valentine\u2019s Day<\/a><\/strong> is the loveliest day of the year, for others, it is distinctly unappealing. Whichever way you feel about the day, here are some good ways to stay out of trouble with your lover when everything around you is hearts and flowers.<\/p>\n<p><strong>DO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/02\/ask-your-spirit-guides-6.html\/\">Get in the spirit of the day.<\/a><\/strong> Even if saints aren\u2019t your thing, and cheery messages are like nails on a blackboard, pick up a sweet bouquet for your wife, your husband, your mom, or Uncle Clyde. Just let someone know you care, and the love will return three-fold.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0Shop wisely. You can afford a shooting star of a gift if you look for sales. December is not the only time of year for merchants to covet your business.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0Plan your Valentine outing as a private affair. If you want to impress your heart\u2019s dearest, this might not be the day to double date or party with your 35 closest friends.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0Do something very personal. If it\u2019s a gift, make it one that\u2019s all about your love. Music you\u2019ve danced to, tickets for a play you\u2019re both dying to see, a weekend at a couples spa, or a psychic reading of your past lives together.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0Select a gorgeous card. It isn\u2019t out-of-fashion to present greeting cards. Some recipients frame and hang them. Some people keep cards forever, seeing them as a true expression of affection. Is it so tough to stop at a card shop?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DON\u2019T<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0Before you decide to buy your best guy or girl the sexiest underwear in town, make sure they\u2019re in to the sultry scene. Nothing falls flatter than an erotic gift to someone who doesn\u2019t want to play.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0Don\u2019t expect a gift in return. Give from the heart \u2013 then bask in the glow of making someone happy. If your partner doesn\u2019t produce a present, settle for a sweet kiss and a huge hug.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0Do NOT return the present your Valentine picked out for you so you can get something you really want. Come on \u2013 this is all about love, not acquisition!<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0Whatever you do, don\u2019t forget the day is coming. If your loved one says, \u201cOh, I never care about Valentine&#8217;s,\u201d that may be a sure sign that he\/she has been disappointed before and figures they will be again. Change their mind!<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0If you\u2019re in a new or undefined relationship, don\u2019t give an inapporpriate gift. Make sure the gift or card suits the character of your relationship. If you go over-the-top, you risk embarrassment, or even a quick end to a new pairing.<\/p>\n<p>Valentine\u2019s Day is centuries old, and there are as many ways to celebrate it as there are hearts in the candy stores. Candy and flowers are still, believe it or not, the preferred gifts, but have a terrific time expressing yourself and <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/lovers-secrets-by-sign.html\/\">matching your lover\u2019s personality<\/a><\/strong> to your celebration. If you simply hate the day and can see no reason for its existence, try meeting some like-minded friends for dinner, and enjoy the notion that spring is not far behind.<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>What&#8217;s ahead for <em>your <\/em>love life?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"font-size: 16px;color: #d33d26\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=110524\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The most dreaded and yet most anticipated day of the year for lovers. 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