{"id":5867314,"date":"2011-02-19T08:56:18","date_gmt":"2011-02-19T16:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5867314"},"modified":"2016-05-03T16:39:58","modified_gmt":"2016-05-03T23:39:58","slug":"sex-qa-is-the-marriage-really-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/sex-qa-is-the-marriage-really-over.html","title":{"rendered":"Sex Q&A: Is the Marriage Really Over?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sheila asks:<\/p>\n

My husband has filed for divorce. I’ve also filed. I don’t feel any romantic feelings for him. Why does he still want to have sex with me?\u00a0Why does he still say that he loves me? I can’t return his feelings<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Liam’s<\/a><\/strong> Response:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Greetings, Sheila. The question you pose is one I believe a lot of ex-wives might be curious about<\/a><\/strong>. As I feel my way through the situation, I sense that your husband is a man who’s made more than his share of mistakes. He’s totally eradicated your trust, and that sort of betrayal makes it hard for a lady to be generous about granting sensual favors. In other words, this man hasn\u2019t done much<\/a><\/strong> to make you feel romantic or sexy\u2026 So it\u2019s no wonder there are no huge waves of wanton vibration or heart-racing adoration when you consider him. However, I feel I must suggest that you do still have feelings for him. Object if you will, but I see that there’s a good deal more to this little drama than you admit.<\/p>\n

In sensing your energy, I find you a true lady, through and through. A woman of class and taste. As such, you’ve got tools in your natural arsenal that can lend you massive amounts of control in relationships. I see that you already wield these weapons well but you aren\u2019t conscious of what you\u2019re doing. It\u2018s a natural flow for you. However, knowledge coupled with that kind of instinct is even more effective. So let\u2019s give you the knowledge. What I want you to do is dig deep and isolate what it is you\u2019re really feeling for this man. Go beyond your anger\u2026 Get past your fear. Move within and try to find out if you just might still like him\u2026 even a little. If you don\u2019t, then head straight to your attorney and have him ask your husband’s attorney to enforce a no contact rule, and get on with your life.<\/p>\n

However, I have a strong feeling that what you\u2019re really doing here is enacting an ancient mating ritual in your own fashion, trying to ignite the dormant passions between you and your estranged spouse. Your husband wants to have sex with you because, frankly, you’re really good at making love. No one is what you are to him in bed. Like most men, he\u2019s also very territorial. Having mated you for a number of years, he tends to view you as his property. However, it seems to me that what started out on his end as an old-fashioned attempt to reclaim breeding rights, has become something else altogether. Because when he chased, you REFUSED… and refused, and refused. People constantly fail to understand that we don\u2019t place value on another person as an innate action. One has to earn being valued. For a woman, respect is crucial and mystery is part of the formula. By turning him away, you set the rules. You make him wonder whether you\u2019re sharing your affections with another. So now he values you more. Now you\u2018re a lucrative prize. A thing to be treasured, desired and lusted for. I wish you could give lessons on how to manage this.<\/p>\n

So the question isn’t why does he do what he does… It’s what you do you want? How far do you want this to go? At this point, he isn’t totally ready to alter all his bad behaviors, but shortly\u00a0he could be convinced to do so if you decided you wanted him back. If you do, keep that bedroom door locked… With a deadbolt. Let him chase you and you resist. Date other men, because it\u2019s always a lady’s prerogative to keep her options open and conduct your relations with your husband as if he’s but one of a pool of potential suitors. Because that\u2018s what he’s now, and that was his choice… You can get him thinking that was a big mistake. If you want this relationship, it\u2019s yours to reclaim. If not, then you\u2019re well-armed<\/a> <\/strong>to find another, more satisfactory mate. That choice is yours.<\/p>\n

Liam<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Liam? <\/strong>Ask Liam your question now.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your <\/em>career path?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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