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Vee from Auckland asks:<\/p>\n

My husband passed away more than six years ago and left us in financial strife. My children were one and five years old at the time. Also, he cheated on me. It all came out after his death. Did he do it on purpose \u2013 leaving us penniless? I find it very hard to forgive him for doing that to his babies. I have tried to forgive him<\/strong><\/a>, and even though I say it, honestly, I don\u2019t mean it. I just want to know why. Please shed some light, Red.
\n<\/em><\/p>\n

Psychic Red ext. 9226<\/a> <\/strong> Responds:<\/p>\n

Dear Vee,<\/p>\n

Your husband didn\u2019t intend on leaving you, nor did he ever intend for you to find out about his affair. In his mind, he would get away with his indiscretions, provide a decent life for you and the kids and leave behind a moderate legacy and wealth of memories. Unfortunately, that\u2019s not how things worked out. If he had known what his future truly held for him, there are many things he would have done differently<\/strong><\/a>, including making sure that you and the kids would be taken care of. While he always intended to make provisions, his life ended before he got around to it.<\/p>\n

While your husband may not have been the best husband and father, or the most loyal, he didn\u2019t purposely leave you and your children broke with a basketful of difficulty. Planning ahead wasn\u2019t necessarily one of his strongest points, but he also didn\u2019t think he had so little time.<\/p>\n

Your husband lived selfishly and then died selfishly. That seems to be the core issue that keeps eating at you, and preventing you from truly being able to forgive him. Your pain and anger is quite understandable. He left you, your children and quite the mess behind. It\u2019s going to be tough for you to forgive him<\/strong><\/a> and actually mean it. Someday, you may be able to. For now, all you can do is keep trying.<\/p>\n

I do hope this helps you, at least a little bit.<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,<\/p>\n

Red<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Red? Ask Red your question now.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your <\/em>love life<\/strong>?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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