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Anonymous writes:<\/p>\n

Dear Red,<\/p>\n

We fell in love at first sight 20 years ago. Had five years of great connection, communication, passion, respect. He left the area 15 years ago — haven’t seen him in 14 years. Our last communication was in January of this year. We want to re-connect. Please advise.<\/p>\n

<\/em>Dear Anonymous,<\/p>\n

I really want to encourage you to call and speak with a psychic, whether it’s me, or any of the fantastically gifted readers here at California Psychics<\/a><\/strong>. Your question may appear simple on the surface, but your situation is actually quite complicated. A one-on-one reading is definitely the best way for you to get the guidance you want, along with protecting your privacy.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, I can tell you that unless some decisions are made to shift the circumstances, things don’t look good for an easy reconnection between the two of you. Both of you want it, but neither of you are clear on how to get what you want without making certain adjustments and sacrifices. Intention without action seems to be a repeat theme between the two of you.<\/p>\n

I’m not going to say that you won’t ever be with him, but I am going to say that I don’t see the two of you coming together this year. You have some disappointments to face when it comes to this relationship, but these are challenges<\/a><\/strong> that can be overcome.<\/p>\n

I know there’s a lot at stake for you, and that you wish that things could just come together smoothly and easily. But, not everything is meant to be smooth or easy, no matter how much you wish for it. If each of you continues on as you have been, eventually life will cross your paths again. But, it’s going to be a long wait<\/a><\/strong>. While some things certainly are meant to be, the how and when they come into being has a lot to do with individual choices. Neither of you is currently doing anything to make your fantasies into a tangible reality; just dreaming, and waiting.<\/p>\n

I wish there was more I could tell you, but this just isn’t the best venue for the depth of reading you need. I’m sorry I can’t offer you more.<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,<\/p>\n

Red<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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