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Confused in San Antonio writes:<\/p>\n

A few years ago I met a woman I was attracted to at work. Nothing happened because at the time I was in a relationship and the woman at work was a supervisor. After my relationship fell apart, I moved away to another state and so I finally wrote this woman a letter telling her how I felt about her because I needed to express myself and wanted to let it out. I didn’t hear from her until months later telling me how moved she was by the letter which made her happy when she really needed it.<\/em><\/p>\n

We have kept in touch via email and letters for over a year. I have moved back to the state where I was living before – not for her but because I preferred being here. I would like, however, to know if she has a romantic interest in me or not because I cannot gauge how she feels. Sometimes she seems interested and sometimes I just don’t know. If she does feel romantically towards me will she ever come full circle with me and be in a relationship with me?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Dear Confused,<\/p>\n

I’m afraid that I don’t see this relationship evolving into a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n

Your friend does enjoy the communication you share, and is indeed flattered by your affections, but she really can’t see herself pursuing a romance with you. Sure, she thinks about it, and there is some physical attraction from her toward you – but I just don’t see the two of you pulling together to give this a “shot.”<\/p>\n

The mixed signals she sends you are just that – mixed. Even if the two of you should date, which is a possibility, all you will get is a solid friendship and more mixed signals on the romantic plane.<\/p>\n

I sense absolutely no malice in her – she is not trying to toy with your emotions in any way – she just really doesn’t know what she wants. Because your attraction to her is very strong and very real, I want to urge you to be careful. There are limits with how far this relationship can go.<\/p>\n

It does seem like love is on your horizon, with it’s roots in the Internet. I see you meeting someone online who will shift your attentions and affections, possibly even sweeping you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Hang in there!
\nRed
\nExt. 9226<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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