{"id":15950,"date":"2024-12-27T05:00:10","date_gmt":"2024-12-27T13:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=15950"},"modified":"2025-01-15T20:20:25","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T04:20:25","slug":"why-love-spells-are-bad-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/why-love-spells-are-bad-for-you.html","title":{"rendered":"Why Love Spells Are Bad for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>What Is A Love Spell?<\/h2>\n<p>A friend of mine, who was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/articles\/Love\/707\/Open_Your_Heart.aspx\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>tired of dating<\/strong><\/a>, did a love spell. He did a lot of research, and was not new to doing spell work. However, he was profoundly educated on the topic by the results of his work. He did a spell listing seven qualities he desired in his next girlfriend. He got them! Unfortunately, they came in seven different women. He decided to let nature take its course after that.<\/p>\n<p>So the most obvious question is, \u201cWhat went wrong?\u201d He was not specific, yet even if he <em>was<\/em>,\u00a0and dotted every \u201ci\u201d and crossed every \u201ct,\u201d would there have been some sort of flaw? My opinion is yes! <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/02\/where-is-the-love.html\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Love and relationships are tools<\/strong><\/a> that affect us more deeply than any other. Those two aspects of life are the very foundation of experience and our existence here. So, of course, the greatest tool for our enlightenment lies in them.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Shouldn&#8217;t You Do A Love Spell?<\/h2>\n<p>When we look through the eyes of a psychic, we\u2019re looking to see the future, to understand what is coming, or what is happening in the now. That seeking of clarity is an attempt to understand \u201cGod\u2019s Will\u201d or the <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/the-universe-is-always-communicating.html\/\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>nature of the universe<\/strong><\/a> as it stands. We are seeking wisdom and guidance. We use this information to affect control over our own life, to exercise our own free will.<\/p>\n<p>We get into trouble when we try to take over the controls for other people! I really don\u2019t believe that any type of \u201cspell\u201d works as we desire it to when we attempt to take over another\u2019s free will. The very concept of \u201cstealing\u201d that person\u2019s choice goes against natural laws or lessons we see in almost all of the religions or belief systems that exist. There is a big difference between religion and spirituality, yet in both it\u2019s clear that to force your will on another is wrong. That is why <em>I believe<\/em> that no love spell could ever be specific enough to get you clearly and exactly what you want.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s compare a love spell to the tale of the \u201cMonkey\u2019s Paw.\u201d The bereaved mother wishes for her dead son to come back to life. When he does, he is not her son. He is a dead thing without a soul. If you get love or sex without that person\u2019s total and willful permission, will it satisfy? No.<\/p>\n<p>Where would you be on your path to enlightenment if you were to accept the situation and move on, rather than proving that love stolen, not given, is empty? As many children will attest, getting what you want whenever you want it does not insure happiness. Acceptance that only mutual love is rewarding will save you years of pain and suffering, and this will bring you more quickly to mutual, natural love and relationship!<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>What&#8217;s ahead for <em>your <\/em>love life<\/strong><strong>?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"font-size: 16px;color: #d33d26\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer2\/pick_your_psychic.aspx\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cast a love spell and find your soulmate? 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