{"id":14864,"date":"2010-11-18T11:00:40","date_gmt":"2010-11-18T19:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=14864"},"modified":"2016-05-03T14:39:55","modified_gmt":"2016-05-03T21:39:55","slug":"red-responds-why-do-they-die","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-why-do-they-die.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: Why Do They Die?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dee from San Diego asks:<\/p>\n

Many of the men that I\u2019ve dated have died. I\u2019m confused, why were they put into my life? I\u2019m just in my early forties.<\/em><\/p>\n

Psychic Red ext. 9226<\/a> <\/strong> Responds:<\/p>\n

Dear Dee,<\/p>\n

Looking at you and who you are at a soul level tells me that many of the men that have passed on<\/strong><\/a> were actually more in need of you than you were in need of them. While it may not seem fair, and is certainly likely to make you question yourself or your purpose, please understand and accept that it\u2019s not you. I\u2019m not telling you that to make you feel better (even though I hope it does), I\u2019m telling you that because it\u2019s being presented to me as a truth.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a kind, sensitive, and spiritual energy.\u00a0Just being you has attracted people<\/strong><\/a> (primarily men) to you that are searching souls.\u00a0While their stay on this plane may be shorter than average, they seem to be intuitively drawn to you. Many of these souls had things they needed to learn or experience, and you gave them what they needed, regardless of how the relationship was developing. Because of the time these men spent with you, no matter how long or short that time was, you impacted their lives and their outlook. Some went on to find happiness with other women, others did not. However, each of them had a better understanding of compassion, values, and a truer sense of belonging because of crossing paths with you. While you may not have loved them all, you did somehow open them to love. In your own way, you\u2019re a healer. It\u2019s a very special kind of gift, even if you wonder from time to time if you\u2019re cursed.<\/p>\n

When you ask why these men were put into your life, that question is likely to make you feel very imbalanced, and is a bold illustration of how unfair life can often seem. The real impact is not that they were put into your life, but that you embraced the opportunity to be in their lives.<\/p>\n

Not every love or lover that you have had has come to you for healing; there are those whom you\u2019ve embraced that had something to offer you. Some are still here, others are not. What is most impressive about you, and your silent gifts, is that there is a scattering of souls who are still walking the earth because of having known you. That\u2019s pretty impressive.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid<\/strong><\/a> to love because of the potential of loss. Just be you, and continue to love with every fiber of your being. Death is an unavoidable part of life. While you will grow old, you will not grow old alone. When your time comes (and it\u2019s a long ways away), your husband will be holding your hand. He\u2019s a love that is true, devoted to you, and is also one of the souls that you will save.<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,<\/p>\n

Red<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Red? Ask Red your question now.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your <\/em>love life<\/strong>?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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