My boyfriend lives in London and always expresses his love and intention to marry me. He is out of job and asks me for money. Should I hang on? Will the situation get better in the future.<\/i><\/em><\/i><\/p>\nDear Dunstana,<\/p>\n
It is true that your boyfriend is struggling financially and eventually will find employment. While this will change his situation in a positive manner, it is going to be quite some time before he is financially stable and in a position to seriously consider marriage or building a life with you.<\/p>\n
Financial issues are stressful regardless of the situation, and even the best relationships are bound to feel the pressure. What troubles me is that your relationship presents like a comfortable old shoe. I see you as being fond of your boyfriend and not necessarily wanting to walk away, but I am not seeing you as head over heels in love with him. Because of this, I seriously doubt that this relationship can survive the current struggles, much less the challenges that lie ahead.<\/p>\n
Rather than send your boyfriend the money he asks of you, take the cash and put in a drawer. Over the next couple of months while you contemplate what this relationship offers you, you will have saved enough cash to buy yourself a diamond ring.<\/p>\n
Brightest Blessings,
\nRed
\nExt. 9226<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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