{"id":11864,"date":"2010-09-24T05:00:49","date_gmt":"2010-09-24T12:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=11864"},"modified":"2010-09-23T15:39:27","modified_gmt":"2010-09-23T22:39:27","slug":"alchemy-in-disappointment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/destiny-life-path\/alchemy-in-disappointment.html","title":{"rendered":"Uncovering Alchemy in Disappointment"},"content":{"rendered":"

You can\u2019t always get what you want\u2026 or so the song says. Surprisingly enough however, the Rolling Stones had it right. While you may have your sights set on something (or someone) that doesn\u2019t wind up coming your way, the universe<\/a><\/strong>, in its infinite wisdom<\/a><\/strong>, will<\/em> give you what you need. More importantly, if you choose to accept it, you may find what you got to be a whole lot more satisfying than what you were after in the first place!<\/p>\n

It’s All By Design… Yours!<\/strong><\/p>\n

There may or may not be an actual reason for things when they happen. What definitely exists, however, is a lesson. Sure, it hurts when you don\u2019t get what you want \u2013 especially if you wanted it really, really, badly. Since love is our innermost drive, the heartache multiplies when the desire was for another human being. The trouble is, regardless of what we\u2019ve \u201clost out on,\u201d we often focus so much of our attention on the object of our desire (personal, professional or romantic), that we lose track of why<\/em> we actually wanted it. What needs were we looking to fulfill? How were we going about getting them met? Therein lies the gold.<\/p>\n

If you can step aside from your disappointment and analyze two things: your motivations and how you went about pursuing your goal, you\u2019ll unlock the mystery of your situation \u2013 and be able to grow as a result. For instance, you didn\u2019t get the job you wanted. Look closely and you may see that you only wanted it because it would improve your standing in the eyes of your parents or friends. So your goal was misguided. Maybe it\u2019s more important to find a path that would satisfy you on a deeper level.<\/p>\n

Or perhaps you\u2019re devastated by \u201cthe one who got away.\u201d Are you pining for a solid and fulfilling partnership, or have you convinced yourself your mate was the veritable definition of perfection while selling your own needs short? Odds are, you had good intentions \u2013 love. But your process (projection) was all wrong. Mr.\/Ms. Right will not be perfect. Nor will he or she get away \u2013 the two of you will be equally committed to working things out. On the other hand, Mr.\/Ms. Right Now comes to show you how to be your best you in a relationship. And they\u2019ll keep on coming until you\u2019ve got it figured out! On that note, this your chance to\u2026<\/p>\n

Learn to Read the Signs<\/strong><\/p>\n

The benefit of 20\/20 hindsight is that you can look back with clear eyes to uncover signs you may have missed along the way to your recent disappointment. If you\u2019re like most people, you\u2019ll find that deep down, you knew this would happen \u2013 or at least had an inkling that something was amiss. Going forward, make it a point to enter into your pursuits with open eyes and clear intentions. The universe<\/a><\/strong> will guide you toward your own highest good as long as you\u2019re an active (and engaged) participant in achieving it!<\/p>\n

What is the universe saying to\u00a0you<\/em><\/strong>?<\/strong> Try a psychic reading. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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