5 Truths You May Not Be Ready to Hear

Sometimes the Truth Can Set You Free

Are you ready to hear the truth? Here’s the top five reasons for your relationship failure that you may not be ready to hear:

1. “Me controlling? What are you talking about??”

Day after day, I hear my callers tell me what they want their partner to be, do, and say. The number one lesson here is you cannot control the behavior of another person, but you can control your own behavior. You need to ask yourself, am I with the right person? Can I accept who they really are without expecting major changes? Do I need to be more compromising and less rigid? Can I forgive and move on? You must answer these questions honestly and then modify your behavior accordingly. Relationships are an investment that require a lot of hard work and dedication.

2. “No no no, you can’t be right about that. Are you sure you’re reading my energy?”

As a psychic, I occasionally encounter the caller who simply does not want to hear their message from the guides. They want to direct the reading the way they are most comfortable, rather than hearing what is truly coming through. The truth can sometimes be painful. But, doesn’t it make more sense to hear what the problem really is and fix it rather than pretending that it is something that it is not? Think about this: what you are doing now is not working, correct? So try thinking outside the box. Get a fresh perspective on your situation. Hear what your psychic has to say and move forward. Your psychic is your spiritual guide. Let them help you. Remain open to change.

3. “I’m not alone, but why do I feel so lonely?”

All of us have emotional needs that should be met… but is it really your partner’s responsibility to meet all of them? Actually… no. We must learn to meet some of our emotional needs ourselves in a relationship so that we don’t weigh down heavily as a burden to our partner. Think about this: If we walk into a relationship well balanced, full of positivity, we will have something to offer our partner in a healthy manner. If we walk into a relationship needy and co-dependent, we will sabotage the relationship and cause our partner to pull away. No one is attracted to negative energy or problems. This is precisely why it’s so important to take care of ourselves; mind, body and spirit. Be good to yourself first so that you can be good to and for your partner.

4. “I really am thankful for what I have… I think.”

How grateful are you… really? Did you know that in addition to the law of attraction exists the law of gratitude, which is of equal importance and significance? There is no doubt that you get what you ask for and you get it in abundance when you put forth effort. By showing gratitude, you exhibit that the effort you put forth was in tune with what you desired; in turn, you will obtain more of what you wish. On the contrary, if a person does have abundance but does not show gratitude, he will eventually lose it. This is because he is telling the universe that he does not deserve it. When the universe perceives this, the universe stops delivering. How does this relate to your relationship? Show gratitude for what you do have in the relationship. Show gratitude to your partner for who and what they are and the way they make you feel. Shift your energy from complaining and negative to grateful and positive. Not only will you receive more of what you desired but you, your partner and the relationship will receive more positivity overall.

5. “If he loves me, then why isn’t he calling me right now? I don’t get it!”

Timing really is everything. That which you need to learn may not be learned by another in the same timing. That which you need to process may not be processed in the same timing as another. Everyone deals with issues differently. One is not right and the other wrong – it is what it is. In addition, the universe knows your manifested desires and the universe has an uncanny way of properly aligning events to unfold in just the right time. This timing may not be as quickly as you wish, but the end result is what’s important. Your lack of patience may be the very lesson you are supposed to learn. So, manifest your destiny, take a deep breath and trust that the universe has your best interest at heart.

18 thoughts on “5 Truths You May Not Be Ready to Hear

  1. Fanees

    I had such a difficult day today and coming across this article gave me so much strength. Cannot wait to speak to you Aliza!

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  2. Aliza

    Arlene – I am so grateful for you and your kind words. It is truly a blessing to know you and to have you in my life. I love you and I wish for you all of life’s many blessings 😉 Aliza

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  3. Arlene Lewis

    Wow, another amazing article- and how true on all accounts! I am so grateful for you Aliza, and I am so blessed to have been brought to you in this lifetime, as I know it is definitely for a beautiful reason! I can’t thank you enough xoxo – Arlene

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  4. Bren

    This article is so true. I know my situation is all about timing. I have to say the readings get me through those days when all I can do is maintain a patient demeanor. Blessings to you for being there for me during those moments.

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  5. Aliza

    Michael, Jackie, and Durjoy – Thank you so very much for your kind words!!! I am so grateful for all of you! Blessings – Aliza Ex.5844 🙂

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  6. Michael

    Hello aliza
    You are so amazing and very caring
    Looking forward for my reading to come to pass with Gale
    Love your Angels guides and blessings
    Michael

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  7. mike

    Hi aliza
    You are truely amazing and all the advice you give everytime we talk hoping all of my reading with you about Gale come to pass.
    Blessings to you and your Angels guides
    Michael

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  8. Jackie

    It is what it is …. these words were truly a sign for me in regards to what you have been advising me in the readings. I do need more patience and know everything will come to pass believing that GOD has control of the universe and all is set in motion to fulfill the law of attraction as I am grateful for where I am today and for the blessings of tomorrow.

    This is a great article and perfect timing for me! Thank you.

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  9. Aliza Ex.5844

    Sokhea – I love and appreciate you so much!!!! Sending you blessings and positivity abundantly!!! I too believe we are indeed soul mates 😉 Aliza ex.5844

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  10. Sokhea

    Love and still appreciate your advice! And your kindness, and support, and just everything about you Aliza! I think you and I are “soul mates” LOL. 🙂

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  11. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    The BEST article, hands down !!!!, I’ve read in months.

    Go, Aliza !!!!!!!!!

    Aisha’s article, see on same page as this article, rates up at the top of the list as well !!!!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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