Red Responds: Does He Love Me or Not?

Erin from Mount Pleasant asks:

What does it mean when you tell someone how you feel, and they say, “I don’t know what to say.”

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Erin,

In your case, “I don’t know what to say,” was actually an honest response. You sort of caught your friend off-guard, and gave him a lot to think about. Your friend is not one by nature to make rash decisions or quick responses. So, since that conversation, there’s been a lot of thinking going on.

Your friend cares an awful lot about you, but also fears how things can change. You’re in the midst of a process of waiting things out. It’s going to take time, and things are going to move slowly, but it does look like things are going to move.

Unfortunately, one of the worst things you can do, because it would only complicate the situation and strain the existing relationship, is to bring things up again. Sometimes, you just have to wait things out. This is one of those times.

But, understand that, “I don’t know what to say,” meant just that. It wasn’t a blow off, an avoidance or a time-staller. It was simply honest. While things look like they will be moving slowly over the next six months, you will see positive changes, and also receive incremental confirmations. Really, it doesn’t look that bad—even if you haven’t received the reciprocation and answers that you wanted to hear as of yet.

Be as patient as you can, and it’s all going to work out. You did your part, and because of that, everything else will fall into place.

Hang in there!

Brightest Blessings,


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2 thoughts on “Red Responds: Does He Love Me or Not?

  1. anjae

    i think he was caught off gaurd too! but you should just wait it out becasue thats all you can do now! and never ask a qusiton like that with out building it up for a while! or not at all. be patient

  2. Fiona x5178

    Not all people are in touch with their feelings, think about particulars of their relationships if they are content with them as they are, or ever really examine the “why’s” or “why not’s” with regard to the individuals in their lives. I agree with Red, he was caught off guard. Since you told him how you feel, I sense him pondering, looking at the relationship he has with you, and smiling.


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