Red Responds: Can You Love Two People at the Same Time?

Sherry from Pacifica asks:

Is it possible for me to love two men equally?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Sherry,

The struggle you face and the question you ponder are really rooted in concept and morality, not emotion. The heart feels what the heart feels.

Many people will not be able to completely understand what you’re feeling, because they have not experienced what you’re going through for themselves. Others may be less than supportive, because many are taught to believe that love is not only a monogamous concept. But that is also impossible to be truly in love with more than one person, and cannot love two people equally, unless they are your children.

You have different, but strong, karmic connections with each of these gentleman, and those past life bonds are acknowledged and reflected in this life.

While your men are fairly different, and the relationship you have with each of them is also fairly different, different doesn’t always equal “more” or “less.” So, if love can be measured, it really does seem as if the rivers of emotion run equally deep, even if the water is flowing in two separate directions.

While this dilemma doesn’t appear to be one that you sought or asked for, it apparently is an experience you were meant to have. Rather than struggle with your feelings and try to find justification for loving two men, do your best to accept that you love them both.

In time, you will focus your energy and affection with dedication to one of these men, and your connection with the other will begin to fade. While you’re very likely to always love both men, the presence of only one of them will remain constant. It will be a painful transition, but once the heartache begins to subside, you will be content with your choices and life will become less complicated once again.

Brightest Blessings,


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5 thoughts on “Red Responds: Can You Love Two People at the Same Time?

  1. Annette

    I am 67. Many years ago, when I was in my late teens/early twenties, I was in love with two men.

    Ok. This was the swinging 60s but that had nothing to do with the emotions involved or the relationships.

    My loves were totally different from each other and both fulfilled different aspects of me. I didn’t love either of them more than the other. I loved each of them for who and what they were.

    I was totally honest with both of them. I told them that I had another relationship with another man and, as far as is possible to know, they both accepted this.

    Unknowingly, they both proposed to me on the same weekend. I accepted one and married the other!

    Was I a heartless bitch? I don’t think so. Both these men meant the world to me in different ways.

    I was married for over 30 years. My husband and I gradually drifted apart. We are still friends, however and he, his new partner and I share Christmas, birthdays, children and grandchildren in a friendly and supportive way.

    My other love is happily married with children and grandchildren and while I don’t now have contact with him, we are both at peace with each other.

    Love takes many forms.

  2. Rose Cocca

    i hate any body having affairs..the affairs get very hard on person you let behind…if anybody hAS an affair could turn into something more than that.. well anyway..he/she can never be trusted again..


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