Valentine’s Day isn’t just meant to be for couples. Singles can make Valentine’s Day about them by treating themselves right when they don’t have anyone else to help.
It is upon us again, the “day of the lovers.” If you are married and in a relationship, you’ll tend to look forward to it; well, unless your other half forgets about it altogether. However, being single on Valentine’s Day just seems to be a major issue for most; and for the life of me, I don’t get why.
Let’s start with the obvious. The obligatory bunch of flowers and box of chocolate hardly tells you if someone loves you. Yes, I believe it is the thought that counts and as such, I am disappointed when I am forgotten, but then, that depends on how busy my husband is and what he’s going through. There are times when one simply doesn’t have the time to think about a holiday made up by some marketing person.
So what do you do when Valentine’s Day is upon you and you’re single? I’d say, be your own Valentine! Yep, go and buy yourself some flowers, buy yourself whatever chocolate, cookies or other finery you want and then take yourself out on a date. The date could be going to the movies, going to a nice restaurant, or even staying at home with a good movie and a nice bottle of wine. The possibilities are endless. Get personalized advice, contact a psychic today!
Unfortunately, most singles won’t be able to do that. It seems that Valentine’s Day just brings out a feeling of being unworthy, for you are the Muppet sitting around alone, while the rest of the world is having fun. So my advice is simple; get your head out of your butt and stop feeling sorry for yourself!
The thing that you should remember is that being single is a choice. The clichés apply; if you can’t love yourself, you cannot find love from others. Unless you are desperate enough to be with just anyone, in which case, ignore what I just said. But most of us want to be with someone who loves us, the same way we love ourselves! And what better day to start loving yourself than on Valentine’s Day!
It’s time to throw off the blues, time to move on and find the happiness you deserve. This is the year to take action and responsibility for your own life. This is the year where you won’t sit on your butt, doing nothing, while whining about the stuff you do not have. This is the year where Valentine’s Day won’t be another Schmalentine’s Day, with you sitting at home, downing a bottle of wine, while bawling to a sad movie. This is the year to get out of your funk and take charge!
So, put on something nice. Get dolled up and take yourself out on the most fabulous date ever. Hold your head up high, go into that restaurant (after all, “two” could count for you and the voice in your head) and order whatever you feel like having. Make Valentine’s Day about you and not about someone else who isn’t around. You deserve the world, and you won’t be defined by merely choosing not to be in a relationship right now. Cheers and bottoms up!
“Be gentle with yourself and become your own hero!” – Psychic Jesse ext. 9027
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