What is Beauty to Men?

Understanding the Male Take on Beauty

Every man has said “I love you” to a beautiful woman. However, choosing to stay around through sickness and health takes a hell of a lot more than Botox and breast implants. From collagen injections to mommy makeovers, let’s find out what men think is truly beautiful?

The Trophy Wife

I’m not trying to fool anyone. Big breasts and a shapely waist are a very important part of beauty to most men. That being said, research shows that the majority of women do not seek to be beautiful for the approval of their husband or boyfriend, but rather from strange women. In other words, women care more about what other women think, than they do their own men. This is because other women are a lot more persnickety.

Even though most women understand this, they also have an incorrect reckoning when it comes to men actually caring about the difference between two cup sizes or a few extra wrinkles. According to one survey, over 80 percent of women think men dream about them getting breast implants. However, according to men, only about 30 percent seem to be really that invested in that idea. I mean, yeah, sure, we’re curious. We are just slightly more speculative about what we could do with an empty refrigerator box.

Her Breasts

In general, men are fairly indifferent to the idea of cosmetic surgery. Some men shrug their shoulders to their wife’s new fake breasts. However, once they notice their sex life has erupted into a porn flick, he’ll suddenly get a renewed interest. This seems quite reasonable when you consider that of the women who receive breast implants, Plastic Surgical Nursing magazine claims 80 percent report being more aroused, while 60 percent are also having the best sex of their lives.

However, we give entirely too much credit to breasts, as it is not the woman’s beauty that truly makes a man happy. It is what it does for her self-esteem. This is why it is so important for men to remind their partner every day just how beautiful she is. She will never tire of hearing it, and it will cost him a lot less over the long haul!

“Keep your partner happy by being happy yourself.” – Blythe ext. 5339

The Ultimate Price of Beauty

Numerous studies suggest that women who are already happy with themselves are the most satisfied after a cosmetic procedure. Some women will never be satisfied with their looks, and to men, these women will forever be a soggy jelly roll. I can tell you from personal experience, a woman who is obsessed with her own beauty pays more attention to herself, than she does to her man.

Those bags of fun are not so fun when they come with a host of rules for their use. Making love to a woman with implants can involve a list of things you are and aren’t allowed to do. “Don’t touch my right nipple don’t squeeze the left one; ouch, they’re still very tender.” The fact is, sometimes the more beautiful a woman becomes, the less a guy may actually get to enjoy all that work that’s gone into her.

There is more to it than that. Beauty, to many men, is also a woman with a contingent self-esteem. These women take a lot of pride in their looks, because they believe they owe all they have to them. These are the women who cling to their youth like a baby to its rattle. Who can blame them when you consider that men expect more from these women. Studies suggest appearance is correlated with one’s success and intelligence, so when a gorgeous woman is going through a rough time, her guy will be less understanding.

Men Want to Be Beautiful Too

Like the plague or a bad cold, beauty is spreading throughout couples. Studies suggest that women are getting cosmetically enhanced, and their men are following right behind. It’s called “couples plastic surgery,” and the idea of two lovers complaining about their aches and pains after a joint procedure sounds positively romantic… not!

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9 thoughts on “What is Beauty to Men?

  1. Chuck

    Being a man I can offer just my point of view. My best friend is the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen in my life. She is all natural. She does like to be complemented daily. She is not stuck up and dresses sexy most every day and is very easy on the eyes. Guys take some good advice, even if you have a good friend, let her know she still has it.

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  2. CelticDrgn

    The article still doesn’t say what men find beautiful about women. What women want to know is whether men truly think the emmaciated models in most fashion magazines are beautiful. The magazines hold up these women as the ideal for others to aim for when only 3-5% of the population can look like that. It is damaging to the self-esteem of girls and women. Healthy, happy and confident are beautiful. If you care about yourself, and carry yourself that way, then people of both sexes will find you attractive.
    Blessed Be,
    CelticDrgn

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  3. Becky

    I agree with all the statements above. when will we come to a place in humanity where we value a persons character and ethics before superficial “so called” beauty. I am constant witness to both men and womens self esteem being sabtaged on a daily basis. It is ruthless. What are we offering the children of tomorrow if we continue on this trend of physical and material obsession? Come on people, we are here on planet Earth to evolve and transend beoyund the physical plane. Let us unite, cut out this old and hurtful mentality. We really more than ever need to see the true beauty in each and every one of us. I dare you , any of you who are out there confined to the chains of the devil(media and social conditioning) to free yourselfs and be the real love that you know deep down inside your dying to be. You have my blessings.

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  4. Kerri

    fun bags? soggy jelly rolls? empty refrigerator box? You are a dip wad sir. go back to middle school and re learn how to be a man. you are still an infant. this article is a perfect example of a man who’d head is permanently up his ass.

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  5. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    I’m kind of torn on this on because I’ve met, and read for, way too many gals who think their lives and happiness revolve sole around their looks……

    ….and a few of them , now in their late 50’s and 60’s, are depressed because those looks, no matter what they do, are fading and their * physical * age is starting to show.

    Now…many many, moons ago, in my younger years, I was a petite size 4/5 product model for a few summers.
    I did it for kicks, not for the money . ( A product model makes anything she is near appear larger, a compact car, motorcycle, etc, and I actually did a bit of modeling for Harley-Davidson ).
    But my ” world ” did not evolve around my looks then, or now.

    It’s nice, and good for your self esteem and health, to keep yourself up, stay fit, and be attractive…..but ,personally speaking, I’d like to be known, and remembered after I’m gone, for my inner qualities stengths, and good deeds.

    Nice article Eric….food or thought.

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

    My Grandmother used to say ” Looks fade, but nice is forever ”

    LOL…… she also used to say ” Looks fade, but stupid is forever , don’t ever think you’ll get thru life by soley relying on your looks….use your brain, go to school, develope job skills, get a career .”

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  6. -quinn

    in the song maggie mae – by rod stewart he sings,

    “The morning sun when it’s in your face really shows your age
    But that don’t worry me none in my eyes you’re everything.”

    that’s love…

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