How to Deal With Their Wandering Eyes

Their Wandering Eyes: Should You be Jealous?

A partner with wandering eyes is a common relationship problem. But there are two sides to this story. Sometimes their eyes really do wander and it’s disrespectful to the relationship. Other times a jealous, insecure partner will accuse their significant other of having wandering eyes every time they look around a room.

You really need to determine if your partner has wandering eyes before you can do something about it.

A Look or an Ogle

The research is clear—wandering eyes are as common for the forever bachelor as they are for the celebrated Father of the Year. Scientists blame it on too much testosterone, the biological need to spread seed and the mere fact that most people are drawn to attractive individuals. So looking at another person is not in question because we all do it. What really matters is how long they look and disrespectful they’re being.

I think a good rule of thumb is not to stare more than one-and-a-half seconds. Research suggests that most people feel uncomfortable if they’re stared at for more than three seconds, and if your partner is ogling someone for that long, they are being blatantly disrespectful. Imagine that attractive stranger is a menu. Everything on it might sound appealing, but you shouldn’t order anything when you already have a plate full of food.

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Are You Neglecting Them?

Perhaps your partner is just hungry for attention. It is easy to get lost in the daily grind of work, kids and having too much to do, but that can leave our partner feeling neglected. And if you’re mad at them for having wandering eyes, you aren’t going to make them feel less neglected. In fact, it could make them ogle strangers even more. A better way to handle their wandering eyes is to show them more attention and affection. If you do so, they have no reason to fantasize about getting it elsewhere.

One of the biggest mistakes partners make is withholding affection, love, and sex until they get what they want. The problem with this line of thinking is that it diminishes the value of these essential commodities by putting a price tag on them.

Give Them Something to Look at

If you want to keep your partner’s eyes on you, why not dress up more? Wear clothing that accentuates their favorite body part. Do your hair and makeup. If they feel like you’re dressing up for them, they’ll feel flattered and wanted.

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A Prelude to Cheating?

Just because your partner has wandering eyes, it doesn’t mean they’re going to cheat on you. Wandering eyes are not prerequisites to cheating. But, an unhappy partner who feels neglected could be. Wandering eyes could be a sign that something’s missing in your relationship. They may be a sign of a larger problem.

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Knowingly Disrespectful

Be sure you’ve talked to your partner about how their actions make you feel. Sometimes people need a reminder. Another option would be to give them a taste of their own medicine. Maybe if your partner feels the kind of hurt you’ve been feeling, they’ll change their tune. But if you’ve told your partner their wandering eyes offend you, yet they continue to ogle strangers, it may be time to call it quits. This is a definite sign of lack of respect and you deserve to be with someone whose interested in ogling you and you alone.

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