Reasons that women don’t like sex are generally temporary and can be resolved by paying attention to the details. It’s important to know if she doesn’t want to have sex because she’s tired, angry, stuck in her head, dealing with bad memories or maybe it’s just not the right time of the month.
Why Do Some Women Shy Away From Sex?
A few years ago, the Web site Momlogic.com found that 25 percent of women in a relationship would rather take a bubble bath than have sex. So, us guys concluded it must be true that women are just not as interested in sex as we are, and this is something we will all have to live with. However, what if I told you that there may be more at play here than just genes and hormones. What if a man could create more desire in his partner? Do I have your attention, guys? These are the eight biggest reasons why your women may not want to have sex tonight (and what you can do about it).
Studies suggest that women are involved in over seven times the amount of housework as their male counterparts, and this includes her working a full-time job. Guys, if you help more around the house, this will benefit you in two ways. One, you will poop yourself out, so nightly sex may no longer be on the menu. Two, you will open up some free time for your lady, who may at first opt for a bubble bath. However, once she gets out, you’ll have a better chance of rubbing her down with lotion.
Both men and women can hold a grudge. Women, in particular, can tally up old indiscretions, and find a deeper, more disturbing meaning in them. For instance, a rude comment about her flat butt, not noticing her new haircut, followed by raised eyebrows while she orders a second piece of cake, equals you fixing to sleep with the entire Kentucky, varsity, cheer-leading team. Now, if you add one compliment about her red shoes, you’ve only decreased your evilness by one cheer leader. Every man makes mistakes, just try not to make too many!
She Thinks Too Much
A huge part of sex is feeling sexy. If a woman does not feel good about herself, she is not going to want to do it. While a big portion of this is in a woman’s own mind, a guy can certainly help by initiating as many positive compliments as he can. The idea is that if a woman can get her mind off her insignificant flaws, she just might be able to give herself the permission to relax and have some fun. Turn up the romance in the bedroom with advice from Psychic Marin ext. 5113!
Anal experiences, an old, selfish lover, or nights where the woman is left with the wet spot, can all have a very negative effect on her desire for sex. Consider the fact that many women have sex to feel an emotional closeness… so when a man slams, bams, and rolls over to saw a few logs, he’s not exactly giving her what she needs. Create positive memories for her to associate sex with, and I guarantee she will see the act in a more positive light.
You Don’t Know Her “Schedule”
Most guys’ sex schedule looks like the feeding routine of a baby alligator. He’s ready any time of the day, or at least would like you to think so. Women have a mental schedule. However, they also have a physical one, which is hosted by her monthly visitor (a.k.a. Flo). Flo prefers to schedule nookie somewhere between her monthly visits, which means that if you can follow a calendar, and the various types of pads in her trash can, you will know when she wants sex.
Freedom of Choice
According to surveys, most guys are dissatisfied with the amount of sex they’re getting. This means they have probably pressured their partner for sex, and they may or may not have said please. If you can remember the last time someone pressured you to join a religion or eat tofu, you can appreciate the Reactance Theory. This theory states that people are more open to something when they feel like it was their own idea. In other words, don’t pressure a woman, or you will only drive her farther away.
She Feels Like She’s Failed… and Has Given Up
Complaining about a lack of sex will have about the same amount of effectiveness as nagging a smoker or over-eater. What does a guy do when he doesn’t feel like he is getting enough nookie? He complains. What does he do if she tries harder, but still doesn’t come through? He complains more. What this accomplishes is making the woman feel like a failure, which is not exactly an incentive to try harder. In fact, it makes her want to try less.
Guys, women want to make you happy, but you have to appreciate her efforts, or you are only sabotaging your own happy ending!
Psychic Lucy ext. 5353 has the tools you need to take your romance to the next level!