8 Ways to Surprise Your Lover (in a Good Way)

Make Them Happier

There is nobody who should know how to surprise your lover better than you. However, the amount of effort we used to expend gets stifled by tiredness, laziness, kids and maybe the occasional feeling of resentment once we’ve been in a long-term relationship for a while. Today, we are going to discuss eight ways to surprise your lover with a renewed sense of creativity, curiosity, romance and passion. The best part is, doing these things is easy and not very time-consuming.

Demonstrate How Well You Know Them

It is wonderful to discover that someone knows you almost as well as you know yourself. While you may sometimes rack your brain trying to think of new way to surprise your lover, sometimes the old tricks are still the best. In other words, I bet you know something your partner would really enjoy tonight (food, massage, sex position, tickets to mud wrestling, etc.). There is a limit to what they would call their favorite things, so just pick one and give it to them. Why reinvent the wheel when the one you’ve got has plenty of miles left on it?

Give Them 100 Percent of Your Attention

Take the time to give your partner 100 percent of your attention when they want to talk. Most couples are used to talking to the television, the back of a book or the back of their partner’s head. Pay attention! Doing that is a sign that what they have to say is the most important thing at that moment.

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Relive Your First Date

We are so focused on creating new memories, that we forget about past ones. But it’s nice to revisit a happy experience from the past. Moments like these bring up old memories and feelings that will bring a smile to both your faces.

Forgive and Forget

We are all capable of holding grudges. Wouldn’t it be a nice surprise if you immediately forgave your partner the next time they did something to annoy you. If you’ve been together long enough, there’s a good chance you know what ticks each other off. It’s pointless to keep throwing their mistakes in their face, so why not give them the benefit of the doubt and forgive and forget? They may even surprise you by never doing what they did again!

“Picking your battles is of utmost importance. Sometimes we take things too personally, when in reality 99% of what a person does is not about us.” – Psychic Giovanna ext. 5214

Crack a Joke

There are topics in a relationship that require serious attention. However research suggest that a little lighthearted commentary can actually promote communication, intimacy and sharing. A tease, funny nickname, or light joke can bring couples closer together while dealing with an unpleasant situation, like paying bills, a disagreement or doing chores. If you are annoyed with your partner, rather than lashing out try teasing them in a playful fashion and you may avoid ruining the rest of the day over hurt feelings.

Celebrate Your Partner’s Success

Do you celebrate your partner’s accomplishments? Surprisingly, this is something that rarely happens in a lot of relationships. Whether it is a promotion at work, a finished house project or mastering a new guitar riff, your praise matters a lot to your partner. People crave recognition, especially from those who mean the most to them. If there was ever a surprise that does not happen nearly enough, it is giving your lover a big congratulations for a job well done.

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Point Out Something New

Humans are constantly evolving. Is your partner the exact same person you feel in love with? You’ve changed and so have they. Take the time to talk to your partner with curiosity and fascination. Point out the positive changes you’ve noticed and praise them. They will appreciate that after all this time you still find them so interesting.

Apologize

Studies show that men rarely apologize. This is because they don’t think every fight they have with you is their fault. But an apology is not always about admitting fault. Apologies can also make your partner feel heard and respected. Apologies put an end to bad feelings and they cost your nothing.

 

14 thoughts on “8 Ways to Surprise Your Lover (in a Good Way)

  1. Eva Louviere

    I have a long distant relationship with man that I love a lot. He told me he’s coming to se me. Is he really coming? Is he being honest with me? Thank You.

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  2. Robert

    I think these are awesome suggestions… I will keep them in mind and use them the next time that I am blessed enough to have a partner in my life… Thank you

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  3. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext 9500

    It’s the little things that sometimes can make all the difference in the world.

    Nice article, Eric !

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  4. Ann

    When, where and how and under what circumstances will i meet my soul mate?
    I was born May 7, 1947.

    Will i ever be rich and don’t have to worry about money anymore … if so, when, where, how and under what circumstances will this happen and how long will it last ….. the rest of my life ???????

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