Signs That He’s Straying

How You Can Bring Him Back

Do you have a sneaking suspicion that your man is slipping away? Sometimes we all get lazy in tending to our relationships. Sometimes work gets in the way, or a time commitment to something other than work, like dance, or roller derby, or art, or our friends. All of a sudden, those hours of easy time with your guy seem to be a distant memory.

While it’s easy to jump to a worst-case scenario when these realizations hit, it’s essential to evaluate the situation. Just like you can get wound up in your busy life, so can he. Don’t assume, just because he’s not as present as he once was, that your man is stepping out on you. Maybe he’s just gotten busy with life.

That said, if he is distant, and you’re feeling worried and lonely, there are things you can – and should – do.

• Take responsibility for your part of it—it takes two to tango. It takes two to stop dancing, too. Where did your attention drop? Or on the other hand, are you expecting your shared world to your whole world? Have you fallen back, or are you holding on too tight?

• Get clear on your feelings, but don’t over-indulge. Getting worked up can feel really good in that really bad way. You can start feeling justified, enraged, spiteful. Instead, take a breath and chill out. Give yourself, and your guy, the benefit of the doubt.

• Communicate about it; schedule some time to spend talking. Don’t disguise this as a date. If you’re stressed out, or just attempting to gloss over things, it will be apparent.

And, when all is said and done, remember this; if you’d rather be hanging with the girls than chilling with your guy, or out riding waves instead of surfing channels with your man, maybe there’s really no need to bring him back. Maybe you’re the one who’s strayed!

Lasara Firefox Allen, MPNLP, is a best-selling author, educator, activist, and coach. Wife to her True Love, and mother to two amazing young women, Lasara believes in living the life you want to create. Lasara is available for coaching and spiritual guidance.

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2 thoughts on “Signs That He’s Straying

  1. sammiepoo123

    Yes i do he told me yesterday that he is going to rejoin the mennonnites and we cant be friends I am afraid and I dont know what to do 🙁

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