Psychic Deejay: Why Some Soulmate Relationships Aren’t Forever

Is a Soulmate Relationship a Forever Relationship?

Soulmate relationships are some of the most rewarding connections you can experience in your lifetime. It’s an eternal bond and it’s one that was created before you and your soulmate were born. It comes about as a result of a soul contract the two of you made where you agreed to work on life and its lesson together. But that’s no guarantee that your soulmate connection will physically last a lifetime. How can this be true?

There are many reasons why soulmate relationships end. It often has to do with one person’s journey, lessons, challenges or choices. And soulmate relationships are challenging in and of themselves. The people involved can create issues and blocks based on their past relationship experiences, making it too difficult to maintain a healthy relationship.

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Healthy Relationships

In order to have a healthy relationship you must have compatibility, chemistry, communication, character, continuity and feel fulfilled within your own self. Just having a block in one of these areas can create distance and change within any relationship—even a soulmate relationship. Soulmate relationships can recover from these blocks, but some are destined to split, while others are destined to split and then rejoin. If you still feel a connection and the energy between you two, it’s possible that in spite of all the drama a soulmate bond still exists.

Moving On

So let’s say your soulmate couldn’t get their act together and now you have separated from them. How do you move on once your soulmate relationship has ended? It starts with focus. Focus on yourself, your thoughts, your energy and your choices. You shouldn’t let someone’s inability to face their issues stop your from achieving your soul’s agenda. It’s not easy and it’s painful to go through, and you’ll hold on to the hope that your soulmate will snap out of it. But don’t get too comfortable resisting what you know you have to do—move on. Remember, the ultimate goal of your life is to achieve your soul’s purpose, and no one should get in your way—not even your soulmate. The choices you have to make won’t always be easily understood, but you will gain clarity as your life continues to unfold.

Some Hope

And here’s a hopeful note: Sometimes when you release the energy of an existing relationship it makes your soulmate aware of the distance you’re putting between the two of you. If they feel you moving away, they may panic. And if they’re worried enough, they may start to see themselves with more clarity than ever before. It might inspire them to work on their issues and get on the right path back towards you. But be certain that I am not telling you to let them go, just as a means of getting them back. I’m saying let them go because they’re interfering with your soul’s purpose and if they come back, it’s because the distance you put between the two of you inspired them to become self-aware and change. It doesn’t always happen this way, but it can.

You Can Have Soulmates

Did you know you can have more than one soulmate? People often get caught up with “the love of my life,” but often there is more than one love. Your life isn’t over yet, so how do you know they’re “the love of your life”? You don’t! So have the courage to move on and find your next great love, if your circumstances call for it. Helen Keller said, “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” Heed this advice!

Soulmate relationships are complicated, but they’re also fulfilling. They’re not always easy and they’re not always forever, and that’s okay. If you’re having some soulmate drama, I’d like to help you work through it.

Love and Light always. Many Blessings.

Deejay ext. 5435

47 thoughts on “Psychic Deejay: Why Some Soulmate Relationships Aren’t Forever

  1. mia

    I was reading the articles and I find them all to be very informative and enlightening. I am/was involved in a 2 year relationship with a married man, I am also married, however we were both separated. His wife left him twice in the 2 years. We have had a serious relationship in those 2 years, he has allowed her back yet once again, still wanting me to stick around in case it doesn’t work out again. In that time I have fallen in love with him, however I am not going to stick around for the roller coaster ride. I need some advice on that situation. This has become to much for me!

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  2. Seren ext. 5445Psychic Seren, Ext 5445

    What a beautiful article about soul mates, DeeJay!

    You presented the information in a very realistic, practical and easy to comprehend manner and dispelled some of the many myths about the nature of soul mate bonds.

    Thanks for sharing!

    Brightest blessings,
    Seren

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  3. Naima

    This was so moving and helpful to me bc I’m in the process of letting my soulmate go.Ladies trust your God given womanly intuition and move on if need be.Ive been trying to convince this man to leave a negative situation that he admitted to being or taking part in all in knowing it was not right for him and actually crying to me about it.The person in question is a little younger than me but make no mistake we are soulmates but I realized he’s just not willing to or not mature enough to be the person I no he can be.This man will not show himself to me anymore he deals with things by shutting loved ones out which includes members of his immediate family and of course me.so I’ve decided to just walk away it’s funny but before reading this beautiful article I was wondering do soulmates every come back and now I got my answer.Im not leaving to punish him or to even make him come back.Im moving on to fulfill the rest of my life journey even if it means not ever seeing or talking to him again I have confidence that he will return a better man and person and even if we never have a relationship again I no he’s going to find a way back to say I’m sorry and thank you I no this truly in my heart. This article was so helpful and wonderful thank you so much xoxo

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  4. jula

    Reply to Renee. Don’t confuse being ‘soul-mates’ with intense ‘chemistry’. To be involved
    with a married man who is cheating on his wife doesn’t mean that he is your soul-mate. It
    does mean that you and He are working out some unresolved issues and insecurities from
    the past. Just as I thought my friend was my soul-mate when really I was looking for a loving
    father figure and someone who had qualities that I perceived were desirable for me. What was
    good for him proved to be very harmful spiritually and emotionally for me. I gave up my own
    dreams and desires to cater to him and then after 30 years he physically left us anyways and
    I felt grief-stricken, not because I ‘lost him’, but because I lost myself being with him. I am
    now 48, and feel barren and devastated at what I have given up. Be careful of older men who
    just ‘play’ younger, vulnerable woman to control them for their own EGO. Discover yourself
    first and what it is YOU really want from life. Hope you learn from my mistake. Blessed be!

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  5. jula

    I’ve been awakened to what ‘soul-mates’ can really be. I call my ‘soul-mate’, my stole-mate
    because he stole many years from my life by convincing me we were ‘destined’ to be together.
    Yet he was emotionally, spiritually, and physically a cripple and really just needed an ‘angel’
    to rescue him. Rather than develop my own soul and spiritual development, I catered to his
    insecurities and found myself becoming depressed and lost as he was incapable of meeting and
    truly sharing a healthy life with me. He turned out to be a cynical and harsh critic and I could
    not express myself and my needs without risking offending his sensitivities. To the writer,
    tired, I wish to say be careful of the next person, especially if they are significantly older than
    you and have all the answers. Often predators will use that line of being soul-mates and
    referring to you as an angel in order to manipulate you. Don’t let your soul be diminished by
    giving away your power, ie., dreams and desires, you’ll end up being bitter, not better!

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  6. Deejay x 5435

    Tinku Chhabra

    Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful words. Your heartfelt energy is understood!

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  7. Deejay x 5435

    Freda
    Thank you for sharing your situation. If I can help or If any of the gifted California Psychics can help with the messages and clarity to sort out the why and why not of relationships we are here.

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  8. Deejay x 5435

    Renee
    Thank you for sharing! It is not impossible to find the happiness you deserve. Life’s journey brings surprises when you least expect it. Believe in yourself and in what you know to be true! If I can help, I would love to connect with you 🙂

    Love Light Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  9. Deejay x 5435

    Tired
    I hear your words and I feel your frustration and pain. You are a beautiful soul who is not hopeless to love, you just have to reset your intentions and allow yourself to define and know who you really are and what you will no longer accept. You are a loving soul with a large capacity for compassion and it puts you into situations that end up breaking your heart! You are a strong vibrant being and do not settle for less than you deserve. Your “Happily Ever After” is coming!
    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  10. Deejay x 5435

    Jula
    While I appreciate your comment, I have to agree to disagree with you. A healthy Soulmate relationship should never be defined as controlling or manipulated. Being Codependent in any relationship is a symptom that should not be tolerated. If I or any of the California Psychics can bring clarity to you for any reason, we would love to help!

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  11. Deejay x 5435

    Lyann

    Thank you so much for sharing your words! Your transformation has been amazing and as you look over the years through both happiness and tears at the memories of your journey you absolutely should be proud of all you are here and now! If I can ever assist with your journey do not hesitate to ask.

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  12. Deejay x 5435

    Gayle
    You are so welcome! Looks like the universe helps guide you to the clarity and inspiration you need. My guides tell me you are strong in who you are and you can plan your path now with confidence! You are a Beautiful Soul! If We can assist we are here for you!

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  13. Deejay x 5435

    Ms J
    Thank you for your comment and I look forward to connecting with you! Do remember you are still connected and you do feel the energy of the relationship, but also know you do have the strength to set yourself and thoughts in a new direction. Sometimes you just have to put the soul connection on the shelf for awhile!

    Love light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  14. Deejay x 5435

    Dede

    I or any of the California Psychics would love to sort out and bring clarity to your situation.

    Love Light Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  15. Deejay x 5435

    Psychic Quinn

    Thank you so much, I am grateful for your words! I am a true fan of your writings and your astrology messages I consider a true resource! So Thank you for all you do 🙂

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  16. Deejay x 5435

    Judy
    Thank you so much, your words touched me greatly! You are without question one of the many that this inspired writing was meant to connect with! You are exactly right in your understanding of where you are in life and with Chuck. Happiness to you both, Celebrate and enjoy the realness of true love! Just know I am here if you need anything!!

    Love, Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  17. Deejay x 5435

    Michael
    Thanks for your comment. The connection is strong and yes there is chemistry but remember not all Soulmates are meant to be relationships. Often, We travel in Soul Groups! I or any of the wonderfully Gifted Psychics would love to bring Clarity to your question.

    Love Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  18. Deejay x 5435

    Natalie
    You have a wonderful energy that is gaining momentum and yes you are ready for a new chapter. Just remember not every relationship is a Soulmate and not every Soulmate is a relationship but the universe brings people and situations for a myriad of reasons and I do feel your life brings a breath of fresh air this spring!!! Stay on track! If we can help just know we are here!!!

    Love, light and many Blessings
    Deejay 5435

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  19. Deejay x 5435

    Donna
    Thank you and thank you for being a true Believer! Just know California Psychics is here for you!

    Love, Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay x5435

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  20. Deejay x 5435

    Eva Twin Flames are very very rare! and as you know twin flames are a single soul split in two for a specific purpose to be achieved in this lifetime. Most Twin flames never meet or come together during that return. It does happen but it is extremely rare!

    Love, Light and Many Blessings
    Deejay x5435

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  21. Deejay x 5435

    Sherri
    I or any of the California Psychics would be more than happy to help to add clarity to your situation. When it comes to finding a healthy relationship a good place to start is within you. Knowing you and knowing what you want and not settling for less that you deserve.

    Love, Light and many Blessings
    Deejay x5435

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  22. Deejay x 5435

    Karen You are correct! So often people stay too long in situations that are not for their highest good especially when you know it is time to move on and you choose to stay stuck hoping you can fix what is not in your power to change.

    Love, Light and many Blessings
    Deejay x5435

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  23. Deejay x 5435

    Gina Rose
    Thank you for your kind words… I really appreciate you!

    Love, Light, and many blessings

    Deejay x 5435

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  24. tinku chhabra

    Birds leave off the tree when the fruits are exhausted; the swans [bird] quits the lake when it is dried up; the soulmate turns out the man who has no money in his pockets; ministers bid good-bye to the king who has lost his throne; honeybees never touch the flower that is faded and withered; the deer flee the forest consumed by fire – so it is evident that people take delight in things that delight them. Who takes interest in others otherwise?
    if a guy has respect and honour for his sweetheart and he is devoted only to her and if a girl is also same as him then their relation will be long lasting,for longer relation all want respect for each other and truth <3

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  25. freda

    I believe that I met my soul mate twice,two different people but alike in so many ways!!,I’m tried of be there bck bone,got to learn were my soul truly want to be..15year married 8years to one,four years four month with other,both Leo”s seven days apart!!both had my heart both letting go now two days apart,divorce paper came one day,boyfriend move two days later!!!wow simulates!!SAG. ME KEEP IT MOVING!! 🙂

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  26. Renee

    I met the man of my dreams, perfect in every way, the chemistry was there from day one, I loved the way he made me feel, and all I wanted was for him to be happy, unfortunately my soulmate is married,which makes it impossible. Knowing I finally found the one I’ve been searching for, and he’s commited to someone else….I’m miserable and it’s been months…

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  27. Tired

    I guess that means I have had a plenty of soul mates because they all have seen the error of their ways and some have begged to be back, but I see it this way…there is a lesson to be learned and I’m tired of having to be the one that they say oh your just an angel…..and I’ve seen how horrible I was and blah blah please take me back and in doing so shame on me once twice and yeah even three times… Me the dummy and your outta here!!! but I’m tired and exhausted of being the angel and am giving up faith on that right soulmate… Due to always having faith and devoting to them and in return only teaching them the lesson when do I get a break! Just a hopeless fairy tale romantic dummy yep that’s me

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  28. Tired

    I guess that means that I’ve had a many a soulmates, that have seen the error of their ways, and have realized all the wrong they put me through and say I deserve another… And letting go is excruciating especially if you still loved through all the pain any way dispute the cruelty out through and if they try to come back and given a second chance shame on me has been my lesson in life then another soulmate does the same they learn their lesson and say oh your an angel and I will never change and you deserve better and I’m the demon to blame or however their beliefe in why I need better is getting tiresome to my soul and one to many tears is hardening my thought process towards finding and it keeping my head up about finding “the right soulmate” ya….

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  29. Lyann

    An informative article on soul mates. After reading Deejay’s article it validates what I have
    concluded all along. Yes, I believe I met one of my soul mate. We have known each other for
    over 20 years but were in a serious relationship for 8 years till I made a decision to finally
    leave. All that time I was holding on to the misconception that soul mates are forever and that
    their is only one soul mate in this lifetime. I was wrong in my case.
    Their were existing issues that weren’t dealt with back then. Instead it kept on going on the
    same path. I had enough and finally found the courage and strength to let go and leave. As
    I reflect back I am very grateful for the life’s experiences and lessons that I needed to learn
    and grow from. That was my divine gift from the Universe. I have no regrets, guilt or shame. It was what it was. All I have within me is one of love and gratitude for the
    journey that transformed me to the person that I have become today!! 🙂 Its all good!!!

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  30. Gayle Gohr

    Thank you deejay, Your article hit the nail on the head for me. I never realized that my partner was a soulmate until now.split it is But letting him go is going to be easier because I have understanding that I didn”t have before.

    have before reading your article. Thank you for the much needed clarity I now. have.before reading your. article.article

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  31. Ms J

    I am feeling alone, because myself and soul mate have drifted apart, we still communicate, at a distance. I enjoyed your reading, and realize that I must move on, later I will get a personal reading done…I need help, thanks

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  32. Psychic -Quinn ext. 5484

    wonderful article Psychic Deejay –

    I would say this is one of the biggest issues callers ask about.
    so I am sure you helped many with this insightful article.

    relationships have lifespans like people.
    some one night stands can be with a soul-mate, one that we needed to feel again one last time in order to let it go on a spiritual level.

    than those that last, relationships that somehow last for years and years – with happiness.

    if you are an old soul you can count on having more than one soul-mate.
    at some point I do think there is a forever after person that comes into life that you can grow old with.

    hot topic…
    Buddha bless,
    -quinn

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  33. Judy Berg

    Dejay: I loved your article on soul mates. I have never read such a complete report on this subject. I always thought soul mates were forever. I can now uderstand soul mate relatioship much better. I am 72 years old and currently going with a young man of 85. We are both overwhelmed with our relatioship. It’s like we have known each other forever and our number one commitment is to make one another happy. We can’t stop talking with one another. Such love and joy we bring to one another. Thank you for writing your article. I can’t wait to show it to Chuck. We keep saying to one another how can this be? What seems to make our relatioship so perfect? Could it be Dejay, that we have come to an age when we both have left all the silly stuff behind and found joy, peace and a true love of sharing and giving to each other as our lives are coming to an end? We’ve learned what really matters in life. Judy

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  34. michael

    Is it at all When you see a person, this Female I know When we first met Our eyes just looked at each other and stayed that way for a least 5 mins. and then a smile and then we did not know what to say. AND MOND YOU I WAS THERE FOR AN APPOINTMENT TO SEE HER SHE IS A PROFESSIONAL AND I WORK AT THE SAME CALIBER DIFFERENT FIELD. What is your answer to this, She always smiles at me every time we see each other, and she gets confused.

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  35. natalie

    i feel confused, i had my first real soul mate at 18, and thought it would last forever, but things came between us, then ten years later married and had two sons, but my husband died of cancer, and never truly felt like my soulmate,after 15yrs, of raising my children on my own, i feel in love with a man,whom beat me badly, and yet, something inside me, makes me feel like he was a soulmate also, and even though his cruelty, put me through hell, i can’t stop feeling for him,yet i believe as u mention, i have another destiny to fulfill,which involves, a great achievement of some kind.

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  36. Donna Prendergast

    Thank you for this informative and inspiring ‘reading’ and advice. I am a dedicated fan to California Psychics. Thank you again!

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  37. eva

    some of this relates to twin flames or twin souls for soulmates and twin flames are not the same. I am a twin flamethats how I know. Have a wonderfull day 🙂

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  38. Karen McDonald

    How exactly does a soulmate prevent you from fulfilling your soul’s purpose? Wouldn’t this only occur if you allowed them to do this?

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  39. Gina Rose ext.9500

    This was one of the best articles written about soul mates that I’ve read in a very long time. It was both honest and candid.

    Thank You, Deejay, for writing such an enlightening article on this topic. ( as there is such a lot of ” new age fluff bunny ” nonsense out there now on this topic )

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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