Make a Change for the Better
Relationships are never easy and they do take work to maintain. But if you feel like your relationship is all work and no joy, it may be time to shake things up. Whether that’s trying something new with your partner, choosing to be single again, or pursuing a new love, you need to recognize these seven signs it’s time to make a change.
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1. You Have a Gut Feeling
Instinct has kept us alive and safe for thousands of years and you should trust your instincts. They’re gut feelings you get when Spirit is communicating with you. Any low-frequency feelings, like anger or fear, should also be a sign. If you aren’t feeling peace, love and contentment in your relationship, it’s time to change things up.
2. Being With Them Feels Like Work
Good relationships push us to become better people, but if your relationship feels like work, without any joy, it’s time for change. You shouldn’t feel like you’re spinning your wheels with no progress.
3. You Feel Like You Owe Them Something
If you do things for your partner out of obligation, you are not doing things out of love. I they say things like, “You owe me,” and “After all I’ve done for you,” it means they think you’re indebted to them. This is a form a control and control has no place in a healthy relationship.
4. Your Feel an Impending Sense of Doom and Fear
When you phone rings and you see who’s calling, does answering their call bring up feelings of dread and doom? If so, the relationship may need to be evaluated.
5. The Relationship Feels Unbalanced
If your are always initiating the interactions, whether it’s texting, calling or get-togethers, your relationship is not balanced. This also means that you aren’t being respected and you certainly aren’t respecting yourself.
6. You Feel Smothered
Are they always texting you or calling you? Do the texts and calls go on and on? When they visit, do they overstay their welcome? Just because you’re in a relationship with someone, that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a sense of freedom.
7. You Feel Drained
Does spending time with them make you feel like a drained battery? Do you feel like you’ve been beaten up? Do you need alone time to recharge your batteries after seeing them. If every meeting with them feels like chaos and discord, it’s time to reevaluate the relationship.
When it comes to relationships, there is no normal—what works for some won’t necessarily work for others, and that’s okay. And when it comes to boundaries and comfort zones, only you can set them for yourself. No matter how long you’ve been in a relationship, it’s important to take inventory from time to time to make sure it still works for you and your needs. This is your responsibility, just as initiating the conversation about change is your responsibility. If you need help getting that conversation going, or if you’d like some perspective on the state of your relationship, I’d be happy to help you.
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