How to Have a Successful Long-Distance Relationship

Can You Handle a Long-Distance Relationship?

There’s a lot of advice out there on how to succeed at a long-distance relationship, but if the relationship is not up to par, it will not survive no matter how much effort you put into it. I think one of the biggest keys to long-distance relationship success is being able to identify where your relationship is, and the type of partner you are (or have). Then you’ll know if you can actually make your long-distance relationship work!

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The Long Distance Type

Recent research suggests that there are 3.5 million couples living hundreds and thousands of miles from each other for one reason or another. The happiest couples doing this are career-oriented. But not everyone is. If you or your partner are not career-oriented, you can still be happy if the distance between you is a result of the pursuit of some kind of self-fulfillment.

Self-Fulfillment

Couples often feel dissatisfied in their relationships because as individuals, one or both of them do not feel fulfilled. Your relationship will flourish when you and your partner are at your best, which is why it’s important to find and do what makes each of you happy. If that means spending time apart to pursue a dream or passion, than so be it.

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Have a Reunion Plan

You and your partner need to have a reunion plan. This means that if you are separated due to work or school commitments, you must have a specific date in mind when you’ll be together again. Know that the separation of a long-distance relationship is only temporary, and that you have someone who loves you enough to wait for you. There will be times when you crave intimacy and closeness, but if you want to make a long-distance relationship work, you need to wait until you see your partner again.

Commitment

In order to make a long-distance relationship work, you need to be completely committed to your partner before you or they leave. If there is something about your relationship that makes either one of you hesitate, doubt will creep in the moment you part. However, if you are absolutely sure they’re the one you want to be with (and they feel the same way about you), the idea of spending time apart will seem more manageable.

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No Resentment

You or your partner may feel resentment because one of you is choosing to pursue self-fulfillment that separates the two of you. There is no doubt that a long-distance relationship requires more effort than living together or living in the same town, but if you aren’t willing to make the effort and you aren’t willing to support their path to self-fulfillment (or they aren’t willing to support your path), maybe you aren’t as committed to each other as you thought. You have to be able to let them go without resenting them and they can’t resent you for wanting to go either.

Intimacy

Intimacy isn’t just about the physical act of sex. In fact, many couples with long-distance relationships have mastered the art of long-distance relationship intimacy. They are often more creative and diligent when it comes to keeping the passionate fires going. And if physical contact is still needed, make plans to see each other. Often, long-distance lovers reunite after a plane ride, car ride or train trip. Just get there!

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I can’t imagine living my life without daily hugs from my honey. However, getting them is not always possible. But I take comfort knowing that we are committed to each other and trust each other enough to let each other pursue self-fulfillment. I know if we had to, we could make a long-distance relationship work.

8 thoughts on “How to Have a Successful Long-Distance Relationship

  1. Lovely

    Having a long distance relationship is not easy for me, unless you trust your partner and both of you understand the word contentment and your relationship will work in a way that you wanted to. Temptation is one of the reason why relationship ruined. I believe that no one will be tempted if he/she truly love their partners. Anyways, thank you for sharing your ideas and it is a big help not only for me but also to couples who are in a long distance relationships.

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  2. sincere

    I’m in a long distance relationship. And it really has its good points. We talk everyday and communication really is the key. I trust her emphatically however, there are those moments of doubt. I quickly call on the fact that we have chosen to be together and even the mere thought of her cheating or I disappears quickly. Still, it is work. When we on however, we are really on. And I consider her my partner and best friend.

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  3. Randy

    Hey I don’t live in wonder land and I’m 56 old Sagiterious I don’t fantisize anything and if it not here it’s not real and being what I am I will not wait for a far fitched thing anyway.

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  4. John

    I have NO relationship going either long distance or other wise. the only long distance thing going on in my life is my daughter lives I Ca. I am in Texas. I have not spoken to her in a year. Every time I try to call her number it comes back as unavailable.

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  5. Renee

    I’m in a long distant relationship, but he doesn’t have a date when will be transfer to the state we both grew up in. I’m in the state and waiting and what we do to be close we have phone sex and i thought it was crazy at first. But because it is between him and I, I have come to look forward to the time we have phone sex. And just hearing his voice turn me on, on the phone and in person, I’m in love with this man for over 20 years.

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  6. Fred T.

    I can relate to what was written up above here cause, I’m dealing with exactly what it is saying. Yes, my sweet heart is dealing with family business and, I’m here studying and working to keep things in order here until she gets back. We both have the trust in each other that neither of us will cheat on the other and wait till we get together for that wild evening together. We are in contact with each other at a certain time of the evening so that the other partner is up dated on any changes and how things are going.

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