Case Studies: Cheaters Are Prospering

Getting Away With It

Why do men cheat so much? And how is it that they can get away with it? Why is it that so often those who cheat not only get away with it, not only prosper afterwards, but can have entire websites like AshleyMadison.com devoted to them?

After all, apparently 30-60% of all married people in the United States will cheat. Even 27% of those who are happily married admit to cheating. And in most cases, cheating never gets discovered. (You can see more infidelity stats here.)

So what exactly drives it?

Clearly there’s a whole level of male psychology driving cheating that needs some deep understanding. This can often be the job of a psychic, who can analyze a situation and see into it deeply in a way that others, especially those entrenched in the drama, can’t.

What are we to do in the aftermath of the affair? Can we forgive? What if we’re the one doing the cheating?

Psychic Quinn ext. 5484 says:

“Can you forgive a cheater? Yes, you can forgive, but dealing with it is much harder. Communication and therapy are key factors in healing a relationship. And if you’re cheating on your partner? Don’t tell anyone.”

What do you think—what kind of message are we sending as a culture by allowing cheaters to prosper? And wouldn’t the alternative be even worse?

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50 thoughts on “Case Studies: Cheaters Are Prospering

  1. temi

    my gf is a repeat offender whn it coms to cheatin.i love her bt its crazy avin to leave wit her after all her confessions.she just did one,told me she has changed after she had a messy fight with the guy,resulting in my gettin to knw.i am nt entirely a saint bt she has done som very unprintable things…im seriously confusd.pls advise.

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  2. Diane Crane

    This is a very narcissistic society and very self-absorbed. I am continually surprised on what the personality traits are that bring people together in the first place , such as: we both like the beach, we both like this or that actor, we both like leftover Chinese food, we’re both allergic to beestings, we both fell off the teeter-totter as little kids, upon first meeting we both said”hello” at the same time……………BORING!!!!

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  3. len

    Seriously – I have worked many years off and on in a field that is predominantly women – the number of women that stray, is incredible. I grew up thinking men were more apt to cheat – not so – men like to talk a big game,but most often,that is just what it is. I would bet that the % of men that cheat and the % of women that cheat is pretty damn close.,now a days. When I went into private counseling – I came across the same old excuse more times than not with females.Which was – I think it was that I got married so young. With males the excuse most often was – she never has time for me.
    Regardless – there are many excuses and they all come down to a lack of communication and or a lack of respect for one another.

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  4. jojo

    I really think men always looking for an upgrade in everything they do especially when they make more money; new gf, new car and new life. They end up with their secretary and blame their wife. They leave their current family and try to start a new one. All the while the first wife is left with no financial, emotional support and no security for their off spring. He never sees his children he pays as little child support as possible. He could care about no one else except his hot young wife.
    Very few women make as much money as men. Society still think that men are the main bread winners
    I find it really hard to believe that women cheat as much as men. That’s crapp men walk away from their children. Women do not do that very often.

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  5. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Dear Marcie,
    Well I hate to tell you but……things will not change unless YOU take steps to change them. Get rid of both of these people in your life. I gurantee you they will not change….but YOU can.

    And AFTER you get rid of these 2 people from your life….Put that anger and frustration to good use…..get angry, work it out physically and lose the weight and get back in shape.

    Then go live and enjoy your life…..it’s much better than staying cooped up in a home, and ruining your physical, mental, and emotional health over these 2 very selfish people.

    My Guides feel that you will reach your breaking point and do this anyway…..so why wait?

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

    Marcie February 27, 2012 at 7:42 am
    I have been in a marraige for 6 years, with a man who is still cheating with my lifelong friend of 65 years( I have a problem using the term friend) It started right away after we were married. At first I didn’t realize it was her so I told her everything, & she sure didn’t mind asking all kinds of questions.
    It took me a while to realize it was her. I told him I knew & begged him to not do this to me. I was so stupid I really thought he loved me enough to not put me through this horror. I went through so much abuse from both of them. It has calmed down but I beleive they still get together once a month. I have put on weight, don’t go out( they will get together if I do, to much details to go into I have seen her leaving up my street, etc.). I don’t beleive in to much anymore. I live a lie. I don’t want to start over. Help!!!

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  6. Denise

    I believe that some men cheat for control. They have a great woman at home but still have the need to have all these other females in their lives. I can’t say that my husband has physically cheated but he has cheated by conversation. So a man thinketh so is he. His thing he keeps sayn they just my friend, yeah right. But he wonders y I’m not like I use to be, not gonna be wife n pefect mommy for his baby

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  7. Sammie

    Women n men cheat, 9 times out of 10 a women cheat b/c she has been scared seriously by a man, but there are some good men out there n get screwed ova by the women that leads them to cheat as well. If men would start being men n teach their sons how to be a man and women teach their daughters how to women we all would be in a much better place. If u can’t do that don’t cheat have a threesome.

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  8. TL'S

    Is it just me I must be missing something ,, so I’ll ask what drives a women to cheat, what is it about some women, those women that ( need so much male attention ) that they can’t maintain a healthy or long lasting or even normal relationship with one men… ???

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  9. Marc from the UK

    I agree with Gina Rose, I have seen people get together through affairs, then as the rose tinted glasses become clear glasses the insecurity sinks in as they both know how clever and devious each other could be in having the affair they become insecure and alienate eachothe. The grass may be greener the other side but it still requires tending!

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  10. Marcie

    I have been in a marraige for 6 years, with a man who is still cheating with my lifelong friend of 65 years( I have a problem using the term friend) It started right away after we were married. At first I didn’t realize it was her so I told her everything, & she sure didn’t mind asking all kinds of questions.
    It took me a while to realize it was her. I told him I knew & begged him to not do this to me. I was so stupid I really thought he loved me enough to not put me through this horror. I went through so much abuse from both of them. It has calmed down but I beleive they still get together once a month. I have put on weight, don’t go out( they will get together if I do, to much details to go into I have seen her leaving up my street, etc.). I don’t beleive in to much anymore. I live a lie. I don’t want to start over. Help!!!

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  11. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Now…..just to be fair….let’s look at the X-wives….

    Many x-wives who call me are hurting, their trust violated, many are in therapy ( as are the children as well)….many x-wives have told me that it took YEARS to overcome , even with therapy and counseling, the shock, anger and betrayel….and regain their self confidence back enough to even get out there and start dating again.

    Now….there are a million reasons why couples divorce….some marriages are SOOOO toxic that even counseling cannot save them and they should divorce.

    But my point is this….IF your marriage is failing, and if counseling hasn’t worked….
    …I strongly advise , to those clients , to leave the marriage the right way AND for all the right reasons….less the damage inflicted on all parties, present and future.

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  12. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Merely as an example, this is what I’ve read on much over the last few decades…..

    Hmmmm….let’s say for example and this is the most frequent example too….
    ….woman calls me, she having an affair with a married man,……married man leaves wife for my client, and they marry. Do they live happily ever after ??? Sometimes they do…..BUT…..
    ……BUT, almost always, about a year or two later, this same client is calling me back, telling me she is happy and he left the wife and married her BUT, STILL, asking me ” will he cheat on me the way he cheated on the x-wife ? “”‘

    She’s happy she has him and is now married to him , but has to live with a cloud of insecurity for as long as she is with him…..

    I do many of those types of readings.
    So be careful what you wish for,….. might be the saying that applies here.

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  13. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Not good……cheating leads to nowhere but eventually guilt , maybe not now, but somewhere down the line.

    I’ve been in business for 45 yearsgiving professional psychic readings …long enough, to see the effects of cheating come back on those who have cheated AND on those who have been cheated on.

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  14. Lillie

    I never have understood cheating. I have always stood by 1 rule in my life when it came to relationships. If I am thinking about cheating on a man in my life then I have to stop an evaluate the whole relationship n ask myself am i really happy with this man that I’m even thinking about cheating on him? If I find myself poundering on other men then it can only mean 1 thing for me and that 1 thing is this particular relationship that I’m in at the time obviously isn’t working for me and its better that i speak up and let the man know that I think it best that we both move on and find what we are both looking for in a partner. Cheating isn’t a option for me…never was. So I would rather leave the man then run the risk cheating an getting caught n hurting a good man an ruining him for the next woman who could possibly be happy with him.

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  15. sheila

    ive dealt with cheater who started and kept a progressing relationship with another girl while still allowing me to think he was single (leading to feelings). i made a confession to the girl since i knew her and now she is falling for him and calling him amazing while i am the lying b—h that she thinks would make that up. He is prospering and though i have forgiven the person, the scars still burn the actions and false accusations against me. he is prospering and i am left to rot like a christmas tree after December. how is this right when i myself have little luck as it is with men! and he the wickham to my elizabeth. i see this as wrong in so many ways.

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  16. sherrie

    you forgot the gays who keep a woman and man, but really hate the women. They will beat and kill them.I wonder why they have children is there any real love from the father his life is a mess maybe out of control. Tell me about these men.

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  17. Asad

    Well it is just not sex the men & women cheat each other. The country I am a part of have cheaters,deceivers,liars,fraudsters, even murderers who not only have prospered but today are in the top posts earning millions each day yet they are the most respected and called the elite. I am aghast at this state of affairs.

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  18. Agness Green

    Please disregard this coment as it may be read by people it could hurt and I do not want to do that. If you want you can change my name as I was mistaken to use my real name. Thank You–Aggie

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  19. Betty Wilbraham

    It is so strange that you are speaking of this subject at this time as I have just met up with a cheater on a dating site. He is leaving all kinds of incriminating evidence so therefore I am done before it has even begun. Yes I believe that this certain man is one in the first category as he did go to Catholic school and got his knuckles slapped a few times and his mom recommended it to the nuns. Now he has a great job and thinks that he is all that but he is not a man of integrity if he thinks that he is going to degrade me like that he is nuts. A lot of guys go on dating sites in order to find victims.

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  20. virginia mesta

    i need that men like to cheat because they cant get everything in that special person. we as te girls should be their friends, lovers and everting for them but also we shoudl let them be themselves without critized them…

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  21. Robert Hawkins

    You do not have any comments on women that cheat. They cheat almost as much as the men. Believe me I have met them.

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  22. Steev

    Lets cut the crap, either sex who screws around on thier spouses, boyfriends or girlfriends are weak in the morality department – justify it with psychological babble all you want, look for symptoms, but it all boils down to a liberal view of life based on a lack of principle based morality which paves a road to the convenience of mutiple partnered sex.

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  23. Torya

    Allowing a cheater to prosper is like paying a burglar. It should be forgiven but never accepted. It seems as if the word “betrayal” should be redefined. Who really cares that someone you choose to commit with slept with the neighbor because of “an excuse to not be faithful”, whatever it is. Scared of change, emotionally dependant and religion has nurtured cheaters by taking away the consequences for their actions, ie divorcing them, openingly shaming them and not turning back. I watched my mother and many others get destroyed by cheaters, women and men. However, they allowed what they thought was love to kill who they were and leave them wounded. LOVE DOES NOT CHEAT!!!

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  24. Musashi Bradley Nakayama

    Men cheat because it’s the nature of human instinct to propagate the human race. Women cheat too as it takes two to tangle. Women have good intuition and so they know if they’re dealing with a married man. So , I feel it’s 50/50 and you can’t say that men cheat more than women. It’s about even (+/- 10%). Sex is one of the highest human instincts besides food/water/shelter/protecting the family/village/etc. If you really take an objective look at the nature of humans scientifically then people will not be so unforgiving of the mistakes both men/women make. But, this will not make your company $$$ now will it? That’s the underlying motive. It’s $$$ and power – basic needs for survival.

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  25. JENNIFERJOBITY

    WELL HEN MEN CHEAT AND GET AWAY WITH IT ,THEN THEIR EGO BLOW UP TO ADD MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR TO WHATS ALLREADY GO

    ING ON IN THEIR LIVES ESPEIALLY IF THEY ARE MARRIED,BUT CAN NOT ACCEPT IT WHEN THEIR WIVES OR GIRLFRIENDS CHEAT ON THEM THEN THEY WANNA HURT THE MAN HIS WOMAN IS SEEING OR THE WOMAN HER SELF BEST BET LADIES THINK LIKE A MAN AND AT LIKE THEM TOO,TO BEAT THEM AT THEIR OWN GAMES BUT MORE FEMININLEY GO LADIES,GO LADIES IT OUR WORLD AND WE HAVE TO FIGHT BAK SOME TIMES WITH GIVING THEM A DOSE OF THEIR OWN MEDIINE SOME TIMES

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  26. Susan

    Cheating is a very personal preference and is all about being able to be honest with YOURSELF and how you feel about you internally; nothing more, nothing less.

    Healthy relationships strive and thrive around honesty, respect AND the ability to communicate, love and accept your partner (as is). Taking ownership of YOUR own emotions (insecurities and all) allows for healthy boundaries to be formed and acknowledged, and this aspect also enables couples to express what’s on their mind so that expectaions don’t turn into finger pointing, extreme anger, hurt feelings and resentments. (I.e. blame!)

    Want to change the dynamics of a relationship (any relationship)? Then change the way you perceive and interact with you… That’s my take on the subject.

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  27. Doug

    Women cheat too, not just men. What goes inside the woman’s head when it was her that was the one that got caught cheating? As far as the mindset of a person, does it matter what sex of the person who is doing the cheating?

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  28. Agness Green

    About cheaters–I was married to a big time cheater for years and I can tell you why it hurts so much–I RESENTED HIM GIVING THE LOVE HE PROMISED ME TO ANOTHER WOMAN–[MANY OTHER WOMEN]–My sister, My sister-in-law, my “friends” some had his child–and I wanted a home and thought “oh well,they all cheat and I stayed for the home and family. When I left him I just got in the car and drove away, if I had stayed there would have been scenes–more hurts–and he would never have stopped. UGLY–YESEREEE–BUT I DID NOT GIVE HIM TIME TO PHYSICALLY HURT ME OR KILL ME–GONE–YESEREEE. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING–I AM FINE BUT LOVE GETTING YOUR HORESCOPE LETTER ETC. YOU ARE RIGHT ON–AGGIE

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  29. Sue

    Mine cheated at the 12 yr and 4 kid mark and acted like it was my fault for paying attention to the kids, and not him!!! Wait, they were his kids too, but he wanted to regain his youth (since he had only been me sexually) and go after everything else that moved. We tried to move past this, but there was a great deal of emotional abuse after that affair. At year 31, he did it again, but this time I had grown strong enough, and my kids were all grown. Let him have all the strange he wants. His kids see him for what he really is. He no longer has all his coveted money to brag that he is rich, and still has his mother to drain what little he has left. I am looking for a soulmate who will be faithful to me, who has already slept with as many other women as he needs to in order to feel fulfilled, and will be there for me, with me, not constantly macking on other women to feel like a man. May the ex’s plumbing never work again, just for his infidelity. Once a cheater, always a cheater!

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  30. Diane Crane

    Olympia Dukakis’ character in the movie “Moonstruck” said it best – men cheat because they fear death. How’s THAT one for a theory?

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  31. Gayle Martin

    Although he may appear to be, “getting away with it,” in the short term, I do believe that eventually their bad karma will catch up to them and manifest itself in one way or another. Good looks and charm don’t last forever. The day will come when he’s old and gray, and he could very well end up becoming a very lonely old man.

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  32. a. s.

    What you’re talking about is non-sense. The reason most men cheat is because the women in majority of those men’s life are too hard to deal with, are cheaters themselves, try to be too controlling, and/or want to live life as though they are single. The average man… that has a spine will not go for this type of treatment in their relationships. It is not because of what happened when men were younger. Truth of the matter is, women want to be men these days, and have no respect for men. THAT’S WHY MEN CHEAT.

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  33. Rhonda

    My view on what message we are sending to society is a certain amount of unfairness, selfishness and not being held accountable when we take on an action that clearly has another person or person’s attached to the unknowing action.
    We then drag another person into the pile of dirty laundry that exists. They on their own have to clean it up, make a compromise with the other, or leave it.
    Again, a personal opinion of mine is why can’t we be truthful and honest enough with people that we share in our life what we do or don’t want. I don’t believe the alternative would be worse because before we make these “commitments” to each other we are allowing the person involved to make a choice if this is something they could accept or not. Or even again, make a compromise with mutual agreeing boundaries.
    I understand too, that it takes us as individuals to really look deep inside at ourselves to grasp why we do what we do. Our intentions. Because so many of us have dragged that invisible laundry bag around with us, that we kind of got use to it being there.
    We keep passing our own dirty laundry around to others. Not intentionally and I realize that. I think we all do deep down.
    I would love to see a day when we take a true action to our accountability to the people who are in our lives. And because each of us our different types of creatures too, we would have in our lives the ones that are truly in the same place as us. Of course too, I realize there are measurements of how much is acceptable and what isn’t.
    Yes, I believe the alternative would be a much more better place. We wouldn’t have to go through all this mental mess that it creates. Would surely free up much more personal time in your life to have what is right for you versus what isn’t.

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  34. Abigail X9570

    Wow wow wow what is the definition of getting away with it? I don’t care what it is that you cheat on there is always a way some where some how that you pay for it. Lets not go buying all this crap or making excuses for hurting others and yourself. Bottom line in the end the cheater is only cheating themselves just like the liar is lying to themselves period. And as long as you allow someone to hurt, lie, walk all over you they will so say no. Adolf Hitler hypnotized a nation to his crazy & sadistic sick ways and what in gods name are we doing now. Maybe in 10 years there will be no family units, no mother and dad for our young coming up with morals and love. What are you buying into? Do you think this is prosperity? Think again….. these youngsters growing up now and in the future will dictate your care and how you are treated when you are in your golden years get real, be brave enough to be loving and loved.

    Many Blessings
    Abigail

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  35. Wisdom

    Everyone knows the difference between right and wrong. To cheat and lie is wrong and men or women who cheat and lie are also cheating and lying to themselves. In my mind, they are fully aware what they are doing, hence the lying; therefore why should the other partner forgive? It has been said over and over again that a cheater will continue to cheat. I just don’t know if it can be healed with therapy. It has also been said that we don’t know what we have…….until it’s GONE!

    There was no explanation as to why a woman might cheat in this article. What underlying cause is there?

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  36. penny

    my comment is we went away for the week-end and one my husband friends went up tp him and my husband said i bought my wife and instead of the girlfriend ,he is going away next month he got a room with king size bed for 2 adults and i wasnt going , what should i do?

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  37. Kay

    i hate cheaters! it ruins family relations! it doesn’t bring any good! but if ever it happens, one must be open-minded and positive thinker to easily accept reality so it would be easier for him/her to move on with life.

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  38. JOSEPH

    YOUR COMMENTS ARE VERY BIASED, THERE ARE MANY MEN IN OUR SOCIETY WHO ARE STILL FAITHFULL IN THEIR MARRIAGE, THERE IS A RISING TREND FOR WOMEN TO BE VERY DECEIVING IN A MARIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP, WHERE IT IS VERY COMMON FOR THEM TO LIE AND HAVE AFFAIRS ON THE SIDE. WOMEN ARE VERY CALCULATING, AND BASICALLY THEY ARE SEFISH AND SELF-CENTERED, WHO THINK THAT THE SUN SHINES ON THEIR REAR ENDS.

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  39. MARY FIRESTONE

    SOMETHING FUNNY TO THE WHOLE THING; MY MOTHER ONCE SAID”MEN, CAN’T LIVE WITH THEM AND CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT THEM’…..I BELIEVE WOMEN AND MEN IN SOCIETY SHOULD SLOW DOWN….AND REALLY LOOK….THINK….DECIDE…BEFORE THEY JUMP INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP….YES..IT IS TRUE, THAT NO-ONE REALLY KNOWS ANYONE…IT TAKES YEARS TO GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER AND THEMSELVES….BUT I DO BELIEVE, IT SHOULD START OUT , WITH THE , THE TRUTH…………………………..

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  40. MARY FIRESTONE

    I HAVE LIVED TO SEE THE BIRTH AND GROWTH OF “WOMEN’S LIB”….BUT I BELIEVE WOMEN SHOULD BE MORE HELPING WOMEN INSTEAD OF “ACCEPTING” THE SITUATIONS WOMEN ARE IN….WOMEN SHOULD BE EDUCATED ABOUT MARRIAGE, CHILD BIRTH, DIVORCE, BUSINESS FIELD, OPPORTUNITIES, TO UNDERSTAND ALL THE AVENUES, AND TO SEE THAT IT IS NOT MAN GIVING THEM PERMISSION TO LIVE, OR TO TELL THEM WHAT TO DO OR NOT TO DO….WOMEN ARE NOT EDUCATED AS THEY SHOULD BE..YES..THERE IS SEX CLASS…BIG DEAL…IT DOESN’T EDUCATE THEM , JUST SHOWS THEM HOW TO GET IN TROUBLE….WOMEN’S LIB SHOULD BE MORE A PART OF WOMEN’S LIVES …..INSTEAD OF JUST BEING A CLINIC….WOMEN NEED TO BE STRONGER,INDEPENDENT, EDUCATED, TAUGHT EXPERIENCE….THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME………………

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  41. MARY FIRESTONE

    I HAVE SEEN AND SEE TODAY….WOMEN JUST “DROPPED” BY MEN…SHE HAS A BABY AND NO LONGER LOOKS LIKE A MODEL…SHE IS LEFT TO FEND FOR HERSELF..GO ON WELFARE…CHOKED BY SOCIETY’S OPINION….LOOKED UPON WITH JUDGEMENT….ASKED QUESTIONS THAT DELVE INTO HER HEART….LEFT WITH TRYING TO FIND A JOB AND AT THE SAME TIME FINDING THE MONEY FOR THE EXPENSIVE SITTER, WHILE TRYING TO PAY THE BILLS…MANY WOMEN IN SOCIETY ARE LEFT TO FEND FOR THEMSELVES, WHILE SOCIETY PUTS THEM IN A JUDGEMENT BOX..WOMEN BECOMING DEPRESSED….EXPECTED TO DO IT ALL, PAY IT ALL, SUPPORT IT ALL, AND SHE FINDS OUT HE HAS MADE ALOT OF BILLS IN HER NAME , NOW SHE HAS TO DEAL WITH HER PAYCHECK BEING DOCKED….SOCIETY NEVER LOOKS AT WHERE MEN THROW WOMEN AND ALL THAT WOMEN HAVE TO TAKE ON ALL BY THEMSELVES….THEY ARE DAMNED IF THEY DO AND DAMNED IF THEY DON’T ..LIVING IN A SOCIETY THAT ONLY MAKES EVERYTHING WORSE INSTEAD OF BETTER….AND IT IS WOMEN, WHO MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND…………..

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  42. MARY FIRESTONE

    I HAVE A FRIEND , THAT IS VERY SAD AT A SITUATION SHE SEES AND CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT….SHE KNOWS ABOUT A MAN THAT IS GETTING A DIVORCE…HIS WIFE JUST HAD A NEWBORN…JUST HAD …HE HAS A NEW HOME HE HAS PURCHASED HE IS LIVING IN…HAS THE CHILDREN OVER HIS PLACE EVERY WEEKEND….THEY WATCH TV….NOW…HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN THAT JUST MOVED IN….AND SHE HAS 2 CHILDREN….HOW CAN THIS WOMAN BE SO BLIND…IF HE DOES NOT WANT ANY RESPONSIBILITY WITH HIS OWN CHILDREN, HOW CAN SHE THINK HE WANTS HER CHILDREN AROUND…..DESPERATE….LONELY…NOT LOOKING AT EVERYTHING AND HOW IT WILL AFFECT THE CHILDREN….SEEMS SOMETIMES THAT UNITY IS “FLY BY NIGHT”…HERE TODAY, GONE TOMORROW….MARRIAGE HAS BECOME A JOKE….CHILDREN HAVE BECOME REPLACEABLE…MAKES ONE WONDER IF IN THE TIME OF CONCEPTION, WAS IT ALL BROUGHT ABOUT, WITH LOVE………….WHAT ONE SEES IN THE WORLD TODAY ARE RELATIONSHIPS THAT HAVE NO FOUNDATION….CARELESS ATTITUDES…COLD HEARTS….

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  43. Marc from the UK

    Another great article and makes sense. I would say that cheaters are not always happy, it is a bit like the sweet shop, once they have there fill it loses its appeal until they are hungry again, but they are not fulfilling there lives always hunting and avoiding whats missing in there lives which is contentment and happiness, insecurity is an illness that requires communication and the realisation that they need educating, when these people get older they possibly have lost there appeal and missed the boat as well for a contented family life which is earned over years of earning the love and respect of family. Who wants to live with someone who has a history or a secret when they are older? NOT ME!

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