The Female Empowered Booty Call

Anyone who has had a long-term, sexually active relationship has, at some point, had the pleasure of receiving a late-night invitation – otherwise known as a “booty call.” Not to draw any gender stereotypes, but most of the invitations I’ve received in my dating history were made by my boyfriend-at-the-time. (Today, I’m a married girl living in the suburbs, whose idea of a wild night is a glass of wine and a 9 o’clock movie – but in my youth, booty calls were definitely part of the menu.)

Looking back, I realized that I never took the lead and initiated any booty calls of my own. Despite their negative-sounding connotation, this phenomenon can be a lot of fun, and adds spice to a relationship. Today, I would definitely recommend to my fellow able-bodied female sisters to take the reins and initiate a booty call of their own.

Aside from a baseball marathon or a beer festival, nothing will delight your boyfriend more than a good, old-fashioned call to action. There’s something fun about mixing up the routine. Don’t by shy, ladies – get in touch with your wild side and give it a shot! Being spontaneous is an excellent way of adding new dimensions to your relationship and your sex life.

Here are some dos and don’ts that will inspire you to have your very own adventure:

DO: Enjoy a booty call with someone you trust and are committed to, even if it’s just committed to having fun. Safety in all things is important, especially when it comes to safe sex.

DO: Invite your guy to you. Give him a call, using your huskiest voice, and get creative with your invitation. Paint a seductive picture with your words by promising some scintillating activities. The more detailed you can get, the better. See where your imagination takes you!

DO: Take charge. There’s nothing as appealing, sexy, or attractive as a woman who knows what she wants and initiates action to get it! Let your man know exactly when to be there and what’s expected of him upon his arrival.

DO: Get creative. Now is a great time to surprise your lover by greeting him at the door wearing that flirty nightgown or experimenting with lotions or oils. Since you’re already mixing things up, take it one step further to add even more excitement to your encounter.

DON’T: Partake in evening festivities if you have an early-morning commitment the next day. Nothing kills a mood faster than being pre-occupied with how much you have to do in the morning. The focus should be on the fun at hand, not the cup of coffee you might need the next day.

DON’T: Go into the booty zone unless you’re into it. Booty calls are meant to be fun, light-hearted, and gratifying. If you’re not feeling the spirit move you, you might spoil the mood and the point of a booty call.

Have fun with these tips to enjoy your very own, late-night adventure and feel empowered by a booty call of your own making! What are your favorite booty call dos and don’ts?

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6 thoughts on “The Female Empowered Booty Call

  1. Juliano

    Gasteroplix I think most couples feel the need to saifsty others when planning their wedding but would rather do something else! Its a tricky one. At the end of the day its your own wedding and you should be able to do what you want. A bit controversial! And lets not get into the amount of money you need to spend on doing what you didn’t want anyway!! Your crochet at the engagement party sounds brilliant! A lovely thing for people to remember you by!

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  3. misskrystalmisskrystal

    abigail,
    lol I like the way you expressed this topic -YOU GO Girl! There are a lot of women out there that for sure appreciated your honesty on this, and can relate.
    Cheers,
    Miss Krystal

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  4. abigailx9570

    Good article Liz ~
    I’ve had a few of those myself ROFL you can also get creative meet some where out and pretend your picking up a strange man …it really gives people something to stare at ! hehehe. Now this was years ago when I lived back in the cold eastern seaboard I met my husband at the airport with my winter coat on nothing under it and boots on 🙂 all kinds of stuff you can do ~ Need any ideas I can help ya! Call 9570 from a womans perspective *

    Many Blessings
    ~Abigail~

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  5. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Hi…..

    And let’s hear it for equality !!!!!
    It’s a shame though, that too many single gals still feel guilt over this issue.

    What’s good for the gander is good for the goose…..and vice versa. LOL!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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  6. Jacqueline

    Hi Liz,

    As with anything in our life, we have to nurture and feed that, that we wish to keep, it can be so fun and fulfilling just enjoying the intimate connection with someone that you love, I agree with you Liz this will be well worth the effort.

    Blessings and Big Hugs!
    Jacqueline x9472

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