Hold Your Tongue!
While every situation and person is unique, there are some guidelines it’s best to adhere to when speaking with a woman. First of all let’s never make assumptions, tell them how to behave or discuss their sexual past. Let’s look at a few phrases you would do well to steer clear of if you want any chance of seeing her again.
1. “You look fine”
If she’s asking, she’s looking for affirmation, not an “I don’t care.” Think of something positive to say to her—even a generic “it looks great” comment will serve you better than this incendiary phrase.
Commanding her to suppress her emotions devalues her right to feel them and is, in essence, telling her those feelings are inappropriate. Unless this comment is delivered in a caring, sweet tone, the effect it produces is demeaning, not supportive.
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3. “When’s the baby due?”
Unless you know for sure that she is pregnant, this question has a huge potential to backfire on you. The odds of her being overweight or battling baby weight after she has had the baby are just too high for you to risk this question without hurting her feelings, and creating an awkward situation.
4. “Is it that time of the month for you?”
If she is upset enough to tempt you to ask this, doing so will probably send her through the roof. This question completely disregards her feelings by suggesting her hormones are to blame, when it could be a myriad of other reasons—not the least of which could be that you are equally to blame for the situation.
“Partnership and friendship are the keys used to unlock the door to intimacy and love.” – Giovanna ext. 5214
5. “How many people have you slept with?”
As curious as you may be about this answer, it’s just plain rude to ask it. Unless she wants to give you this information, it’s really none of your business.
While some men may think they are coming across as flirtatious, this command can be read as, “I don’t care how you feel right now, I want you to smile because it makes me feel better.” This directive can often be a selfish request by which the guy is asking her to flirt with him and make him feel validated as a male. If she’d felt like smiling at you, she would have, Romeo.
7. “Your friend is hot”
Unless the two of you have an open relationship where you constantly rave about others of the opposite sex, this remark can easily hurt her, especially if it is a friend of hers. With this one comment, you’ve just managed to let her know you’ve been checking her friend out instead of paying attention to her. You can bet, too, that you won’t be asked to hang out with the two of them again. What woman needs a guy around who’s checking out and commenting on her friends, causing potential strife in the friendship?
8. “How old are you?”
It really is amazing how many men will ask this question of a woman, even though it’s got to be one of the oldest rules in the book. As people tend to judge based on age, it’s her prerogative to tell whomever she pleases. If you haven’t known her for long, it’s just not appropriate to ask her this, and definitely not any of your business.
9. “Are you a lesbian?”
If she’s not responding to your suave pick-up lines the way you’d like, coming out with this question will ensure you’ll never get anywhere with her, and shows not only your lack of confidence, but a mean streak as well.
So let’s remember, when you’re trying to get somewhere with a lady you’ve got to be careful what you’re saying. Think before you speak. Don’t make assumptions. Be better about how you behave before you tell her how to behave. And never ask her about her sexual past. Following these guidelines will be helpful to your game with the ladies!
“Be kind and forgiving of yourself. We are all human, and we all make mistakes.” – Rivers ext. 5273
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