Old Love Made New
A relationship is one of those things that can seem absolutely fine up until the moment your partner tells you it’s not. The important thing to remember is that every relationship requires more than just maintenance, and you have to go beyond the basics, like saying you love them and doing the dishes once in a while. You may even have to reinvent your relationship to ensure it goes the distance. If you and your partner want to liven things up, here are eight ways to reinvent your relationship that will create the spark and spontaneity you both crave.
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1. Let Go of the Past
You’d be amazed at how much damage a small grudge can do. If your partner did something that hurt you in the past, it’s time to make your peace with it. Stewing on it will only create a wedge between you so if you have anything you need to get off your chest, do it sooner rather than later. Work together to get closure and put it to rest. That way, this grudge won’t get in the way when you try to reinvent your relationship.
2. A Compliment a Day
Instead of focusing on the things you’d like to change about your partner, take note of what they’re doing right and celebrate it. They want to be loved unconditionally—just like you do. Call out their wins and the things you love about them. Chances are they’ll do it more because it makes you happy.
3. Give Each Other Makeovers
This is not the loaded gun you think it is. Playing off the positive, this is a fun and creative way to highlight what you love about them. If you think they have great hair, treat them to a new haircut. If you like the way they look in a certain pair of pants, get them a pair in every color. Encourage them to do the same for you too. Just remember to keep things positive. No criticism allowed!
4. Create Conflict Rules
Focusing on the good is a great thing to do when you want to reinvent your relationship but there’s no denying the fact that you guys are going to fight so fight fairly! You can do that by creating conflict rules. You might feel comfortable expressing your emotions when you’re upset while your partner chooses to shut down in response to your emotions. Conflict can be constructive but only if the two of you work together and fight fairly. Therefore, take some time when things are good and outline your conflict rules. What rules will you come up with?
5. Find Ways to Make Every Day Fun
Having fun is key to a relationship that goes the distance. If you and your partner can turn the most mundane tasks into a good time, you’re doing love right. So forgo the hand-carved gifts (covered with blood, if you’re uncoordinated like me) and opt for a sexy note in their lunch bag, or make up goofy songs while you’re doing the dishes. The little things really do add up if you do enough of them.
6. Discover Something New About Your Partner
Even if you’ve been together for years, there’s still a chance you don’t know everything about your partner. What’s their favorite song right now? What’s their go-to snack at the office when the munchies hit at 3 pm? Your partner’s interests change—just like your’s do—and taking an interest in their ever-evolving interests and tastes is the perfect way to reinvent your relationship.
7. Create a New Ritual and Stick to It
What have you two always wanted to try as a couple? If you don’t know, do a bit of research and see what appeals to both of you. Once you’ve figured it out, give it a try. If you love it, commit to doing it once a week or even once a month. Not only will it strengthen your bond, but it will also improve your communication and teach you to rely on each other.
8. Or, Bring an Old Ritual Back
Instead of thinking up something new to do, you could resurrect something from your past. Was there something you and your partner used to do that really strengthened your bond? Why did you stop doing it? Would you like to do it again? Take your partner back to the old days when your love was new. Watch them get sentimental and they’ll fall in love with you all over again.
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