It’s Not What You Think!
Men are visual creatures. It’s no big surprise, then, to learn that scantily-clad bodies and sexy images rile them up. What is surprising, however, is how your everyday behavior beyond the bedroom can make all the difference when it comes to spicing up your sex life!
Here are three good girl’s secrets to making sure things get very, very naughty between the sheets!
1. Praise Him
It may sound silly—your guy knows how much you like his (fill in the blank), but a little praise goes a long way with the male mind. These creatures of testosterone are fueled by lust, sure, but they’re also fueled by pride. Man’s little secret is that he’s sensitive and he wants to be your knight in shining armor. Let him know how much you appreciate his hard work or how the sight of him fresh out of the shower turns you on and he’ll be more than willing to go that extra mile.
2. Hold Back on the Criticism
Now before you go freaking out (what do you mean I should put up with everything?!), there’s nothing saying you can’t express your discontent when your male mate does something you don’t like. You can and you should. However, pointing out every single thing he does that irks you (from shoes on the floor to dishes in the sink) is not going to get you laid. All those stereotypes of the nagging wife—that’s where they come from. So rather than going on about the little things, try figuring out what’s really getting to you and addressing that. You’ll find that the other things won’t bug you as much afterward, and you’ll both be a whole lot more likely to be in the mood!
“Sex can be very emotional, but remember to look at sex in a practical view too so that it won’t dictate how you think you feel emotionally.” – Psychic Leo ext. 5265
3. Make the First Move
Guys are so used to having to take the initiative. Society dictates that they do the asking out, go in for the first kiss and make the step to take things to the next level. Nothing’s wrong with that… there’s a lot to be said for the thrill of the chase in romantic relationships. However, now that you’ve got him, whether it’s your fifteenth year together or your fourth date, take some of the pressure off. It may be intimidating (or simply out of your usual repartee), but don’t be afraid to take the reins. Whether it’s a demure little kiss and a knowing glance or a full-out strip tease that leads to a trip downtown, let your guy know you want him too, and he’s yours for the long haul!
“Be in the mood to be open and playful and good-spirited.” – Psychic Lalita ext. 5408
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