Say Goodbye to Unsupportive People

Spring Clean and De-Clutter Your Life

Spring is here and it’s the perfect time to spring clean and de-clutter. Say goodbye to unsupportive people and naysayers in your life. Once you do, you’ll feel lighter, freer and more inspired. It’s time to apply a little internal Feng Shui and dump the discounters, doomsayers and dim bulbs in your otherwise bright world.

We all want to share our dreams and joys with those we love. We feel blessed if we have the support of others who believe in us and want us to do well and surround us with positive energy. Lacking that support or worse yet, having your efforts discounted by someone who could otherwise be encouraging you, can be hurtful and even dash your confidence if you let it.

It’s not that you need anyone’s kudos or encouragement – you should never look to someone else for your happiness – but it is nice to have someone extend their support because they want to. You, of course, gladly accept their support because you know you would do the same for them.

Say Goodbye to Un-friends

It is not an easy feat to distance yourself from people who may have been in your life since you can remember, but if they’re not adding to your life, then they are only taking from it. If it’s uncomfortable for you to suddenly say goodbye, try distancing yourself for a little while and see if you don’t feel much better. You may even try explaining to them why you feel this way, how their negativity makes you feel, and let them know you’ve reached the point where you’ve had enough. Give them a second chance if you want, and see if anything changes. But if you’ve already gone down this road with them before and nothing has changed, then saying “goodbye” to unsupportive people is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself.

“Nothing is forever, happiness does come after the pain.” – Tansy ext. 5289

Emotional Vampires

The reasons why someone may not be a cheerleader in your life may forever remain a mystery. They could be jealous, depressed or just plain miserable, and as we all know, misery loves company. Though you may feel compassion or even empathy towards them, it doesn’t mean you have to play into their vampirism, idly standing by while they continually suck the lifeblood from your most heartfelt aspirations.

As humans, we have our own bouts of occasional self-doubt to contend with. That’s the one thing we don’t need help with. We should be surrounding ourselves with a solid support system. Everyone deserves to be bolstered up and encouraged, and isn’t it nice to get that confirming pat on the back once in a while?

Every time you let someone negative get into your head and doubt yourself or make you feel bad because they’re being unsupportive, you let them take away your power. It’s time to tell the doom and gloomers to take a hike.

It’s spring, so spring clean and de-clutter your life. You deserve it. We all do.

“Honor your own heart’s desire as strongly as you do others.” – Claire ext. 5242

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7 thoughts on “Say Goodbye to Unsupportive People

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  2. Nena

    There is a childhood friend that I’ve been trying to distance myself from. She is extremely needy and has no respect for one’s need of space. I was just diagnosed with a devastating illness and she never even said anything other than “Too bad” and then went on and on about how much her life sucks and she is totally healthy. All other mutual friends have ditched her and of course she cries about that to me. I must get rid of her before she literally kills me.

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  3. monique

    that is one of my battles i am going thru right now, unsopportive family members and friends, phony people that are so miserable and dont want you to be happy. peace and blessings to all

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  4. A.A.

    I’m glad I stumbled upon this article because this is exactly what I’m going through right now. I’m working on cutting out these toxic people from my life but it’s kind of hard when you’re currently living with them. It’s hard to stay strong when you are in the midst of such intense drama and negativity.

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  5. C.Wright.Thru.

    Infinite/Eternal Blessings of Love, Light, Peace, Wealth, Great Health, Freedom, Healing and Power!
    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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  6. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    I thought this was a very good article because ANYTHING that a person can do to eliminate negativity and stress is ALWAYS a positive.

    Stress is a killer…..it is damaging on all 4 levels, spiritual,mental,emotional,AND physical…..so eliminating, or at least trying to remove as much negative energy from around your aura is always a plus.

    Well done LJ Innes !!!!!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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