We humans have a universal thirst for romantic love. Pairing up with someone is a measure of success for many and often we wait to find the right someone before we even begin to take baby steps up the ladder of life. But what happens if we are left waiting and waiting and waiting… for love, or we keep loving and losing, or that lofty perfect person just doesn't seem interested? Oftentimes, this is when we choose to consult a psychic, to help us see what's holding us up.
We asked our team of California Psychics a worst case scenario question…
What if a psychic doesn't see love in my reading? Here's what they said:
"Nothing will get a reader's head bitten off so quickly as imparting the news that you just don't see romantic love in a reading," laughs Liam ext. 9290 "except maybe when a reader has to inform someone that a wayward lover isn't returning. Romantic love may just be absent for a time."
"It may be that the love you're waiting for is in the process of forming on the cosmic tapestry," says Shauna ext. 9010. "They may need to complete something before they're ready for you, or maybe it's you that has to make some changes before you're ready for love. No one likes karma, but it could be that in this lifetime your greatest challenge is to learn to love and be with yourself before your true love appears. We need to be patient for a loving relationship to manifest."
She explains, "Don't forget, you are a spiritual being having a physical experience," says clairvoyant and master tarot reader Shauna. "In spirit you are pure love. On earth you will widen your circle of love from family, friends, then intimate partners, and finally higher truths and wisdom as you grow and evolve personally in all of your relationships. Time on this earth is different for everyone. You are on your own time frame and should never compare yourself to your neighbor, friends or family members. We all know people who bloom with success early on and many do find love at an early age. Others accomplish their greatest achievements after they're 50, and some of us meet on the tapestry of love later in life."
"I have done readings where people are looking for forever and ever, happily ever after and yet at the time of the reading this is not what I see," tells Ami ext. 9522. "Sometimes I see a series of happy commitments that are far more fulfilling than outgrowing and stagnating in one relationship."
"I had a client who was on a spiritual fast track. With all the places her path was taking her a committed relationship simply could not survive," Ami explains. I reminded this client that it was her choice to follow what the universe had for her that simply rocked, or if she felt she would find more happiness in a relationship, that was her choice to make in life. Men were coming up in her readings, but only temporarily. She did go ahead and try the relationship route, but it didn't work out. Instead, she discovered that what she was driven to do really didn't accommodate another person's needs. She also discovered life was rewarding her left, right and center when she stayed on course, instead of looking for Mr. Right."
"When I see The Hermit card in the home life position, this usually means the person is having a hard time attracting love," says Fox ext. 9453. The two biggest reasons I see people unable to find love are: they don't love themselves or they fear having a successful, happy relationship. When this is the case, it's up to that person to change the future. I do not believe that the future is so set in stone that it can't be changed. The fastest way to invite love into your life is to love yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you project this to others. When you love yourself, it is easy for others to love you."
"Have you looked in the mirror and loved yourself, lately?" asks Shauna. "Look at your reflection as you say to yourself, 'I am love.' Go ahead, say it out loud, shout it, believe it! Use it as an affirmation, use it as a mantra. Loving yourself is actually the most cherished, spiritual relationship in the world. So don't fret if finding your love is postponed. While on your pathway to meeting your true love, learn to love yourself the way you want someone to love you, because that person you're going to meet is going to be a mirror of who you are inside.
"If you choose to meet someone, imagine the perfect person waiting out there for you," Shauna suggests. "Then let go of the image. Letting go is the first step in finding someone to love you. Next, let (the higher powers) do their work. It will happen!"
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