We just can't please everyone - and this especially rings true when it comes to our friend's opinions about our mate. When someone close to us severely dislikes the person we love, it can be a matter of personal opinion or two personalities colliding (or do they have incriminating evidence you need to know?). We all know people who have friends who were right about the bad ones and equally as many who were wrong about the good ones, our psychics say. The trick is navigating your way to the actual truth of what's being said.
Sometimes we all think we know what's "best" for our friends. So, when close companions verbally trash someone you love (or want to love!), don't shut them out completely. At the same time don't believe everything you hear. When a friend warns you about your mate's past or potential bad behavior, just take note, particularly if that person wasn't there and is merely passing along gossip.
They may truly want what is best for you and are expressing their concerns from the best place of their heart. Those friends will listen when you assure them you haven't seen any sign of their concern. The important part to remember is, while you're taking your friend's concern with a grain of salt, do keep your eyes open. If you begin to notice signs pointing to what they brought up, get more infomation because they may be right. If all of your friends and family are making the same point, unbeknownst to each other, do take a closer look at your mate - but you decide for yourself.
Then again, we all have those friends who just can't be pleased with anything or anyone - who have odd motives for not wanting their friends to be happy with anyone. Those are the people you have to make decisions about. Some really great mates have been tossed out all because of "friendly pressure." You need to decide how much you will tell those particular friends. The less they know, the better in most cases.
A true friend might not understand what you see in someone, but will only care about the emotional effect your mate has on you. The ones who insist they are right and you are blind are a tough lot to deal with - sometimes distance is the order of the day for that group.
If you are getting too much negativity about your mate from friends, kindly point out to them that they don't have to date or live with your love. That may often go a long way with those who show concern over your choice in a mate. Sometimes you have to go one step further and inform those near and dear to you that on this one topic you have to agree to disagree. A quality friend will agree to that and will be there if your love does turn out to be a dud!
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