So, you've met that special person and in the "getting to know you" stage they casually mentioned they were a Taurus, or a Gemini, or an Aquarius. At the time, you smiled - it was just one more great thing about this wonderful person you were falling for!
Then, you went home and consulted the stars. Guess what? You and your soul mate look like you're destined for one thing - disaster! If you have found yourself hooked on your least compatible sign in the zodiac, take heart because there is more to you than your astrological make-up.
One thing to consider before throwing in the towel is what part of your charts are the most compatible? A Leo with a Gemini rising is a very different Leo with an Aries rising. Your sun signs might look dim but your risings may be a match made in heaven.
Secondly, your life is a path with many things to learn and walk through. You are attracted to this person for a reason, even if you don't know the reason just yet. There is something they posses which draws you near. If you walk away from someone without knowing what he or she has for you and what you have for them, you are only destined to look for the very same thing in another person. You cannot circumvent your individual path of learning. Sometimes you have to just hold on during the rollercoaster to figure out where it is actually going. And there's good news: After all the doubts subside, you might really like where this one is going for you.
Lastly, and most importantly, life is messy. The hardest part about falling in love is the sheer uncontrollable essence of it. Will it last all your life? Will it last all week? Though your head and your heart can tell you lots of things to minimize the chaos of love, the truth is, no one can say with certainty how it will all turn out. This "incompatible" sign may be the one relationship you have which challenges you in a new way and breaks a repeating scenario or even a rut, you may have found yourself in with more "compatible" signs. There are patterns in our lives, and the chance to break a pattern is rare and should be cherished. It is from the uncomfortable places that we grow. And there are always doubts in a relationship at some point. If your signs were completely compatible in the heavens the mind would only pick something else to focus on.
Overall, the reason that the zodiac is filled with different signs is because there is something for every sign in another. We all need each other. Allow yourself the luxury of staying in the positive feelings you have for this person, because if there is one thing the stars repeat every night as the moon moves across the horizon, it's that love does conquer all.
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